Summary of "What to Do When a Loved One Won't Accept Help for Their Mental Health Problem"
Key Strategies and Tips for Supporting a Loved One Who Won't Accept Help for Mental Health Problems
- Understand Reasons for Refusal:
- They may not recognize or believe they have a problem.
- They might think they can handle it alone.
- Fear of the mental health system or stigma.
- Feelings of apathy or hopelessness.
- Communication Techniques:
- Open the conversation gently and non-judgmentally.
- Use "I" statements to express concerns without blame (e.g., "I am concerned because...").
- Keep the dialogue ongoing and open about their struggles.
- Clearly explain what "getting help" means (therapy, doctor, psychiatrist, treatment facility).
- Boundaries and Expectations:
- You cannot force someone to accept help; they must want it themselves.
- Don’t hold yourself responsible if they refuse help.
- Avoid taking refusal personally; recognize they may have unspoken reasons.
- Self-Care for Supporters:
- Seek therapy or support groups for yourself.
- Maintain basic self-care: sleep, nutrition, physical activity.
- Support yourself emotionally to better support your loved one.
- Crisis Management:
- Familiarize yourself with local Mental Health Acts or equivalent laws.
- Create a crisis plan including contact info for:
- hospital crisis lines
- Police department
- Treatment providers
- Supportive family/friends
- If immediate danger arises, take your loved one to the emergency room or call 911.
- Inform 911 operators of a mental health emergency to enable specialized response teams.
- In some regions, legal options exist for involuntary treatment, but collaboration with the person is preferred.
Presenter
- Unnamed mental health content creator (YouTube video presenter)
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Wellness and Self-Improvement
