Summary of "NEVER Give WOMEN Your Approval or Validation - Hypergamy Makes Her PULL AWAY"
Key Wellness and Productivity Strategies from the Video
Avoid Giving Women Approval or Validation
- Women are wired to chase a man’s approval and validation, rather than loving a man simply “for him.”
- Giving approval or validation subconsciously signals “you are good enough,” which decreases a woman’s desire and respect.
- Approval and validation lower attraction over time regardless of looks, money, or status.
Understand Male vs Female Attachment
- Male attachment grows from spending time with a woman.
- Female attachment grows from time spent apart from a man.
- Women’s attraction increases with distance and challenge, not constant presence or availability.
Limit Quality Time and Communication
- Spending too much quality time with a woman reduces her desire and sexual intimacy.
- Excessive communication (compliments, check-in texts, phone calls) is a form of validation that lowers attraction.
- Avoid lengthy replies, excessive emojis, exclamation marks, and overly enthusiastic or feminine vocal tones.
Maintain Masculine Frame and Status
- Status is about being perceived as a higher-value man who is not needy or overly available.
- Men must build their value through personal growth, discipline, and masculine behavior rather than relying on external factors like money or fame.
- Women want men who appear “hard to get” and who they have to chase or win over.
Subtle Forms of Validation to Avoid
- Compliments on looks and personality.
- Initiating touch too often (holding hands, cuddling, pillow talk).
- Frequent texting or calling to check in.
- Vocal tone changes that indicate excitement or eagerness.
Use Time and Distance as Tools
- Create space and avoid constant contact to increase a woman’s desire.
- Allow women to initiate contact and chase the man’s approval.
- Waiting to respond or limiting interaction builds attraction and respect.
Mindset and Behavioral Changes for Men
- Erase traditional, romanticized views of love that promote constant validation.
- Accept that women’s sexual desire decreases with receiving approval.
- Understand that attraction is based on challenge, mystery, and masculine energy.
- Build personal value through trials, hardships, and self-improvement.
Practical Tips
- Avoid check-in texts like “How’s your day?” or “What’s for dinner?”
- Avoid talking on the phone about daily routines; it signals low value.
- Do not use emojis or overly expressive text styles.
- Limit physical touch initiation to avoid appearing needy.
- Let the woman earn your attention and approval over time.
Presenters / Sources
The video is presented by Casey (presumed from context and references to “Casey”), who also promotes his MBT (Masculine Behavioral Techniques) webinar as a follow-up resource.
Category
Wellness and Self-Improvement
