Summary of "Best Foreplay For Women - NEVER Fails for ANY Woman | Alexey Welsh"
Key Wellness and Sexuality Strategies from the Video
- Common foreplay Mistakes to Avoid:
- Oral sex is not foreplay but a form of sex itself; it requires prior arousal.
- sensual touching is often too mild and inconsistent to generate strong arousal.
- massage relaxes but does not strongly arouse; it is too long and not a direct arousal technique.
- Mental stimulation (talk, fantasies) is often ineffective as it can over-engage the mind without connecting to bodily pleasure.
- The Most Effective foreplay Technique: body-to-body flow
- Full body contact where your entire body (chest, stomach, arms, hands, face, mouth) is in constant, flowing contact with her body.
- Movement is fluid and continuous, caressing and savoring her curves, skin, and erogenous zones.
- Hands always remain on her, providing consistent sexual touch.
- Face and mouth continuously kiss and caress her body.
- The technique combines multiple sexual touches simultaneously for maximum sensation and emotional connection.
- Creates intimacy, closeness, and a feeling of being loved and desired.
- Awakens her body directly, facilitating genital pleasure and orgasms.
- You must genuinely enjoy and be present with her body, not treating foreplay as a chore.
- Why This Technique Works:
- Provides massive sensory input all over her body simultaneously.
- Enhances feelings of being desired, loved, and held in masculine energy.
- Connects mental and physical arousal by engaging the whole body.
- Makes foreplay enjoyable for both partners, increasing mutual arousal.
- Customization and Calibration:
- Adjust pace, pressure, and intensity according to the woman’s preferences and mood.
- Some women prefer gentle, slow buildup; others want stronger, more passionate touch.
- Variation is essential—doing the same technique repeatedly without change reduces effectiveness.
- Variations and Positions for body-to-body flow:
- On top of her (front or behind), requiring support for comfortable movement.
- Side-lying while holding each other.
- Standing, useful for spontaneous moments or sexy undressing.
- Spooning position.
- Multiple positions can be combined in one session for variety.
- Subvariations within each position to tailor sensations and experience.
- Important Tips for Success:
- Avoid mechanical, anxious, or awkward touch.
- Learn to identify and stimulate her erogenous zones intelligently.
- Ensure your touch and kissing are pleasurable, not annoying.
- Be confident and present, not smothering or too light.
- Variety in technique and intensity prevents habituation and keeps arousal high.
- The technique requires practice and mastery for best results.
- Additional Notes:
- This foreplay method significantly enhances the quality of sex, orgasm frequency, and desire.
- It is a foundational skill taught in Alexey Welsh’s courses ("Perfect Lover" for men, "Holistic Sex" for men and women).
- For women, learning this technique can help communicate desires and improve sexual experiences with partners.
- foreplay alone won’t work if the woman is mentally or emotionally blocked due to external issues or relationship conflicts.
Presenters / Sources:
- Alexey Welsh (Sex coach and therapist, nearly 25 years of experience)
Category
Wellness and Self-Improvement