Summary of How to Intrigue Your Ex - The #1 Way to Get Your Ex Back (Podcast 872)
In the podcast titled "How to Intrigue Your Ex - The #1 Way to Get Your Ex Back," Vincent Boss discusses strategies for rekindling interest from an ex-partner after a breakup. The focus is on self-improvement and creating intrigue to encourage the ex to reach out. Here are the key strategies highlighted:
Key Wellness Strategies and Self-Care Techniques:
- Take Them on a Journey of self-improvement:
- Showcase your personal growth and improvements through social media, blogs, or vlogs.
- Set and achieve goals (e.g., health and fitness challenges) and share your progress.
- Use frequent updates to create intrigue, even if your ex isn't directly connected to your posts.
- Implement a Bespoke no contact rule:
- Understand that a one-size-fits-all no contact rule may not be effective; tailor it to your specific situation.
- Generally, avoid contacting your ex unless they reach out first.
- Allow space for your ex to miss you, which can increase their interest.
- Become a Datable Individual:
- Recognize that your ex may not see you as a datable option anymore; work on improving your attractiveness both physically and emotionally.
- Consider dating new people to demonstrate that you are desirable and not solely focused on your ex.
- Use online dating as a way to boost confidence and showcase your appeal to others.
Additional Tips:
- Engage in activities that improve your mental health and self-esteem.
- Communicate openly about your feelings to prevent negative emotions from building up.
- Embrace new social opportunities to enhance your attractiveness and intrigue.
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Notable Quotes
— 01:26 — « You need to be a better person today than you were yesterday and a better person tomorrow than you are currently today. »
— 10:40 — « Attraction grows in space; somebody can't miss you if you're always in their life. »
— 14:22 — « Ironically, one of the best ways to get your ex back is to date new people because dating new people shows you are a datable individual. »
Category
Wellness and Self-Improvement