Summary of How being busy and running late makes you extremely undesirable and sexually unattractive

Summary

In the video titled "How being busy and running late makes you extremely undesirable and sexually unattractive," host Tar discusses the negative impact of being overly busy and frequently late on romantic relationships and attraction. The episode emphasizes the importance of being present and communicative in relationships to foster connection and intimacy.

Key wellness strategies and self-care techniques:

Avoid Default Responses: Instead of saying "I'm busy," offer alternatives or express willingness to meet at another time.
Acknowledge communication: When busy, send a brief message acknowledging the other person's outreach, even if you can't respond fully at that moment.
Value Presence: Prioritize quality time with loved ones over frivolous activities or distractions, such as social media.
Set boundaries: If someone is consistently late or unavailable, consider enforcing boundaries to protect your time and emotional well-being.
Reflect on Priorities: Regularly assess how you allocate your time and whether it aligns with your values and relationships.

productivity tips:

Schedule Wisely: Avoid overbooking your day. Allow time for transitions between commitments to prevent being late.
Communicate Intentions: If running late or unable to meet, provide context and suggest alternatives to keep the conversation open and engaging.
Be Mindful of Reactions: Consider how your actions affect others. Being late can make others feel undervalued, leading to resentment.

Presenters/Sources:

Tar (Host of the Closeness Podcast)

Notable Quotes

— 00:06 — « Why being busy and being late makes you extremely sexually undesirable. »

— 06:33 — « We all know deep down that no one on a daily basis is authentically busy from the moment they get up in the morning until they go to bed at night. »

— 07:47 — « Telling someone that you're busy sounds about as legitimate as saying the dog ate your homework. »

— 09:10 — « When are we going to stop pretending that we're busy instead of being truthful with ourselves that we prioritize frivolous things over our partner? »

— 26:31 — « Are people who are too busy or chronically late sexually unattractive? Hell yeah, they are. »