Summary of Comment devenir magnétique dans tes relations | EP82
In this episode of the podcast, the host discusses the concept of magnetism in relationships and shares personal experiences of overcoming social anxiety and shyness. The episode aims to provide listeners with strategies to create fluid and natural connections with others.
Key Wellness Strategies and Self-Care Techniques:
- Awareness of Non-Verbal Communication:
- Recognize the importance of body language, which constitutes over 90% of communication.
- Improve eye contact and open posture to convey confidence and approachability.
- Avoid closed-off body language, such as crossing arms or avoiding eye contact.
- Validating Others:
- Understand the human need for validation and the importance of making others feel seen and heard.
- Offer sincere and specific compliments to acknowledge the unique qualities of others.
- Sincere Interest in Others:
- Cultivate genuine curiosity about others' stories, experiences, and interests.
- Step out of your comfort zone to engage with new people, allowing for the possibility of rejection but also for meaningful connections.
- Practice social skills:
- Use everyday opportunities (like cafes or social events) to practice initiating conversations and building connections.
- Embrace the risk of vulnerability to enhance interpersonal skills.
Productivity Tips:
- Focus on Others: Shift focus from self-consciousness to being genuinely interested in others, which can improve social interactions.
- Create Opportunities for Connection: Engage in environments that encourage social interaction, such as networking events or casual gatherings.
Presenters/Sources:
- The host of the podcast (name not provided in the subtitles).
Notable Quotes
— 07:49 — « The human being has an absolutely crazy need for validation absolutely extraordinary to be listened to to be seen to be heard to be important quite simply. »
— 09:07 — « You unlock an exceptional super power that very few humans use while it is within reach of all of us. »
— 13:54 — « I can guarantee you one thing today I am convinced that yes our life it is us who transform it it is us who change it but it is also the people that we meet. »
Category
Wellness and Self-Improvement