Summary of "Sexologist Reveals The Formula To GREAT SEX LIFE, Boost Performance, Food & Porn | FO373 Raj Shamani"
Summary of Key Wellness Strategies, Self-Care Techniques, and Productivity Tips from the Video
Sexual Health and Performance Tips:
- Average good sex duration: 15 to 25 minutes of penetrative sex, approximately 40-50 strokes, divided into rounds (e.g., 30 strokes, pause; 20 strokes, pause; 10 strokes).
- Pre-ritual for good sex: One day before, control diet focusing on Nitric oxide-rich foods to improve blood flow and erection quality.
- Nitric oxide-rich foods: Beetroot, bitter gourd, cucumber, tomato (contains Curcumin), avocado, broccoli, spinach.
- Balanced diet: 50% raw vegetables/fruits (for nitric oxide and fiber), 50% grains (for heart energy and ATP).
- Gut health: Essential for sexual well-being; constipation, bloating, IBS can cause sexual dysfunction. Use natural laxatives (e.g., Fennel seed water) and maintain a healthy gut biome.
- Pelvic floor exercises (Kegels): Strengthen muscles supporting erection and urinary control. Avoid overdoing to prevent strictures.
- Avoid overuse of sprays and numbing condoms: These can cause nerve damage, reduce sensation, and lead to erectile dysfunction.
- Masturbation: Healthy masturbation is moderate (once a week or a few times a month). Excessive masturbation can lead to premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction.
- Mental health and flexibility: Mental strength and physical flexibility (through cardio, yoga, meditation) are crucial for sexual stamina and performance.
- Sex positions: Cowgirl and doggy style allow better penetration and control, enhancing sexual experience.
- Use of sex toys: Bullet vibrators and other toys can enhance female orgasm and sexual satisfaction.
- Communication and emotional connection: Mutual respect, eye contact, foreplay, and emotional bonding are fundamental to great sex.
- Sexual compatibility: It is mostly solvable through communication and understanding; pathological issues require medical intervention.
- Avoid narratives created by porn and marketing: Many exaggerated claims about sex duration, performance boosters, and supplements are misleading.
- Avoid anabolic steroids and unregulated supplements: These can cause long-term sexual and fertility problems.
- Testosterone myths: Testosterone levels vary naturally; unnecessary supplementation can cause infertility and hormonal imbalance.
- Masturbation before sex: Avoid masturbating immediately before sex as it may reduce performance.
- Premature ejaculation treatment hierarchy: Start with Delay condoms, then sprays, Antidepressants, and finally medical interventions if needed.
- Sexual fantasies and traits: Sexual curiosity and fantasies may have a hereditary component.
Addressing Sexual Disorders and Social Issues:
- Pedophilia and paraphilias: Recognized as psychiatric disorders needing medical and psychological treatment.
- Sexual suppression in childhood: Leads to unhealthy attitudes and anxiety around sex in adulthood.
- Sexless marriages: Often due to lack of respect, communication, or physical/psychological issues; counseling and medical help can assist.
- Impact of porn and societal expectations: Creates unrealistic performance pressure and insecurities.
- Sexual infections and paid sex: High risk of infections; hygiene and safety are critical.
- Women’s sexual expectations: Increase with age and menopause due to physiological changes; men’s performance often declines with age, requiring adaptation and communication.
Lifestyle and Environmental Factors Affecting Sexual Health:
- Avoid excessive consumption of sodas and carbonated drinks: CO2 causes gut inflammation and ulcers, negatively impacting sexual health.
- Radiation exposure (Wi-Fi, mobile towers): May affect blood circulation and sperm production; minimize exposure, especially near sleeping areas.
- Milk and hormones: Milk from cows treated with oxytocin injections may disrupt human hormonal balance, potentially affecting sexual health.
- Physical activity: Regular exercise supports hormonal health, mental health, and sexual performance.
- Mental health care: Meditation, stress management, and counseling are vital for sexual well-being.
Practical Daily Routine for Sexual Wellness (The 3-15-15 Rule):
- Spend 15 minutes doing intimate activities with your partner (e.g., nude yoga, foreplay, conversation).
- Spend 15 minutes sharing a meal together to enhance emotional bonding and happiness.
- Spend 15 minutes engaging in physical activity together (walking, jogging, cycling) to break monotony and improve health.
Key Takeaways:
- Good sex is about mutual respect, emotional connection, and communication rather than just duration or performance.
- A balanced diet rich in nitric oxide foods and good gut health significantly improves sexual function.
- Avoid over-reliance on marketed supplements, sprays, or numbing condoms; focus on natural and medical guidance.
- Moderation in masturbation and mental health care are essential for sexual stamina.
- Pelvic floor exercises and appropriate sex positions can enhance performance.
- Address sexual issues with professional help and open communication.
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