Summary of "Why Women RESENT Men Who Are THE TOTAL PACKAGE"

Key Wellness and Relationship Strategies from the Video

Understand Female Nature Beyond Surface-Level Traits

High value men often focus on physical attractiveness, money, status, and charisma to attract women but miss a crucial emotional element—vulnerability.

Show Strategic Vulnerability

Contrary to common dating advice that promotes never showing weakness, expressing minor struggles (e.g., sprained ankle, feeling sick) can increase emotional connection.
Vulnerability invites empathy and nurturance from women, triggering oxytocin and deeper bonding.
This doesn’t mean sharing financial or major life problems (which are traditionally masculine responsibilities), but rather small, relatable issues.

Relatability and Empathy Build Stronger Connections

Women are psychologically wired to nurture and care, which is stimulated when they see a man’s relatable struggles.
This nurturance fulfills a female psychological need and encourages investment in the relationship.

Test Emotional Investment Early

Sharing a small vulnerability early in communication (e.g., on dating apps) can reveal if a woman is genuinely interested or just looking to use you.
Positive responses indicate willingness to invest emotionally; dismissive responses suggest disinterest in deeper connection.

Balance Strength with Approachability

Being a “Superman” or invincible alpha male without flaws can alienate women because it removes the opportunity for them to care for you.
Confidence includes being secure enough to show imperfection.

Allow Women to Express Femininity Through Caregiving

Giving women chances to nurture and “shine” in a relationship strengthens bonds.
Examples include caring for you when you’re sick or injured, or supporting you during stressful situations.

Recognize Why Women Are Attracted to “Bad Boys” or Men with Flaws

Such men show vulnerability or inconsistency, which appeals to the nurturing side of female nature.
Women may subconsciously seek to “fix” or care for these men, fulfilling their emotional needs.

Avoid Misconceptions About Masculinity and Vulnerability

Fear of appearing “beta” by showing vulnerability may stem from deeper insecurities.
True confidence involves being authentic and open about normal human struggles.

Practical Tips for Men Based on the Video

When texting or talking to a woman, casually mention a minor physical struggle (e.g., “I pulled a hamstring today”) to gauge her emotional response.
Observe if she responds with care and concern or brushes you off—this signals her level of investment.
Don’t hide your imperfections; allow women to see your human side to foster connection.
Avoid sharing financial or mechanical problems as vulnerabilities early on—they are seen as masculine responsibilities, not opportunities for nurturing.
Use vulnerability strategically and naturally, not excessively or manipulatively.
If seeking a casual relationship with no emotional connection, maintain the “Superman” persona; if seeking a committed relationship, incorporate vulnerability.

Presenters / Sources

The video is presented by an unnamed male speaker addressing “brothers,” sharing personal anecdotes and observations about male-female dynamics and dating advice.