Summary of "Female Sh*t Tests (TIER LIST)"

Summary of Key Strategies, Self-Care Techniques, and Productivity Tips from "Female Sh*t Tests (TIER LIST)"

The video discusses various types of "tests" women may subconsciously or consciously give men during dating or relationships to evaluate Confidence, Masculinity, emotional investment, and value dynamics. Understanding these tests and how to respond effectively can help maintain attraction and relationship stability.

Key Wellness and Productivity Strategies for Handling Tests

Maintain Emotional Control and Composure
- When women pull away or become dry in communication, do nothing and avoid over-pursuing or showing neediness.
- Use Deep Breathing to stay calm and relaxed when feeling nervous or insecure.
- Conceal excessive interest or emotional reactions during breakups or jealousy tests to maintain masculine authority.
Establish and Maintain Boundaries and Frame
- Do not automatically comply with requests that undermine your authority (e.g., holding her purse).
- When insulted or challenged, respond based on your personality:
  - Agree and amplify humorously
  - Disagree outrageously
  - Ignore and change the subject
- Refuse to change your core beliefs or opinions to please her.
- Take control of the conversation tempo and pace; answer questions on your terms.
- Do not argue with her over petty matters; maintain rationality and stoicism.
Avoid Over-Investment and Neediness
- Don’t apologize unnecessarily or for petty things; stand your ground.
- Don’t try to be her "type" or change yourself to fit her verbal disqualifications.
- Maintain your personal goals, ambitions, and priorities instead of sacrificing them to spend more time with her.
- Show Confidence by attending dates without needing prior confirmation or validation.
Playfulness and Mystery
- Keep responses playful and non-serious when she accuses you of being like other guys or a player.
- Maintain an aura of mystery rather than over-explaining or over-committing.
Discernment Between Tests and Disrespect
- Recognize when behavior is a test (meant to gauge interest and Confidence) vs. pure disrespect or lack of interest (e.g., showing up late excessively, talking about other guys in a friend-zone way, ignoring you while active on social media).
- Do not tolerate disrespect; leave or call out behavior that crosses Boundaries or shows blatant disregard.
Mindset Shifts
- Understand that tests indicate some level of interest; do not get discouraged.
- Recognize that women often test subconsciously due to biology and social conditioning.
- Don’t take tests personally or as attacks; see them as opportunities to demonstrate Confidence and Masculinity.

List of Tests and How to Respond (Difficulty Tier Included)

Final Boss Difficulty (Most Challenging)
- Pulling away → Do nothing, stay busy, don’t chase
- Holding her purse → Refuse politely, maintain frame
- Arguing with her → Avoid arguments, maintain stoic authority
- Breakup out of nowhere → Don’t chase, show you don’t need her
- Taking control of the frame → Answer on your terms, slow your pace
- Spending more time with her (when it compromises your goals) → Maintain priorities, don’t over-sacrifice
- "I have a boyfriend" (cold approach) → Use discernment, sometimes push slightly
- Crossing Boundaries → Call out or refuse to tolerate disrespect
Advanced Difficulty
- Being dry in conversation → Match energy, don’t overcompensate
- Apology fishing → Don’t apologize for petty things, stand your ground
- Jealousy tests → Either playfully fake jealousy or stay composed
- “I bet you do this with other girls” → Keep responses playful and mysterious
- Gradually walking away mid cold approach → Stand your ground, don’t follow
- “You’re not my type” / “I only date guys who...” → Stay confident, don’t overthink
Intermediate Difficulty
- Insulting you → Don’t get offended; respond with humor or ignore
- Disagreeing with you → Don’t change your core beliefs
- “You seem like a player” → Keep mystery, don’t confirm or deny directly
Rookie Difficulty (Easy to Pass)
- “We’re not hooking up tonight” → Don’t push, stay chill, she’ll likely initiate later
Pure Disrespect (Not Tests)
- Showing up late excessively
- Talking about another guy as a friend
- Posting on social media while ghosting you
- Saying “I’m busy” without rescheduling
- Straight disrespect or yelling
- Going on phone too long during dates
- Pointing out “what a real man would do” to manipulate