Summary of DAY 2 TRAINING SERIES: Getting Her INSTANTLY Interested In You
Key Strategies and Techniques:
- Triangle of Attraction: The presenter introduces a three-step process for attraction, with the first step focusing on self-awareness and Authenticity.
- Authenticity:
- Emphasizes the need to be authentic rather than merely sharing personal information or achievements.
- Authenticity is described as being present and sharing what you see, think, and feel in the moment.
- Communication Tips:
- I See, I Think, I Feel: Start conversations with personal relevant statements (PRS) using this structure to express immediate thoughts and feelings. This helps create a connection.
- Example: "I just finished eating lunch and I'm trying not to burp."
- I See, I Think, I Feel: Start conversations with personal relevant statements (PRS) using this structure to express immediate thoughts and feelings. This helps create a connection.
- Homework Assignment:
- Daily Narration: Practice narrating your thoughts and actions out loud for five minutes daily to enhance self-awareness and improve conversational skills.
- Engagement Techniques:
- Avoid excessive small talk; instead, be direct and genuine to capture interest quickly.
- Women are looking for immediate emotional engagement, so it’s crucial to connect quickly and meaningfully.
- Avoiding Common Pitfalls:
- Don't fall into the trap of asking too many questions to keep the conversation going; this can create distance.
- Sharing deep personal secrets too soon can make others uncomfortable; instead, focus on relatable and light-hearted observations.
Summary of the Process:
- Step 1: Focus on "Me" - Be yourself and share your immediate thoughts and feelings.
- Step 2: Engage the woman in a way that resonates with her, leading her to feel comfortable and interested.
Presenters/Sources:
The presenter identifies as a former marriage and family therapist and Dating Coach, with experience in pickup artistry and coaching men on attraction strategies.
Notable Quotes
— 01:20 — « Yesterday I had a meltdown and just chucked the PowerPoint slides which Patricia worked so hard on. »
— 03:02 — « Dog treats are the greatest invention ever. »
— 04:18 — « Can y'all come in here and be damn adults? »
— 17:24 — « A valuable partner can be authentic at all times, not just after a while. »
— 34:43 — « Tell me it's stupid when you see women dropping their panties off you saying some dumb shit like you love KFC. »
Category
Wellness and Self-Improvement