Summary of "Never let women know these 5 things about you when dating. (Never tell women these things)"

Brief summary

The video gives dating advice — five specific things the speaker says men should never tell women while dating. The core message: avoid oversharing emotional vulnerability or logistical details; instead project emotional strength, independence and mystery.

Convey that you’re happy, healthy and “pre-selected,” and that you have a strong emotional backbone — not overly emotional or needy.

Five things NOT to tell a woman (with why and how to act)

1. “Can I give you a lift?”

Why: This can read as trying too hard, signaling weakness or competing for validation; it may be used by the other person to confirm you’re not a priority.
How to act: Avoid gestures that come off as pleading or transactional. Project confidence and don’t make offers that feel like requests for validation.

2. “I’m in love with you” / that you are in love with her

Why: Declaring or showing you’re “in love” early on can make her pull away, doubt your value/sexual market value (SMV), and view you as emotionally weak.
How to act: Keep strong attachment or neediness private. Avoid prematurely escalating emotional declarations.

3. “You make me complete” / telling her how she makes you feel

Why: Explicit emotional praise or framing her as your emotional center reduces attraction and signals you’re easily moved or reactive.
How to act: Don’t gush or make her the source of your emotional stability. Maintain composure and steadiness.

4. Your detailed plans (what you’ll do tomorrow/next week)

Why: Serious or logistical talk kills a playful, in-the-moment vibe and reduces curiosity and attraction.
How to act: Be vague. If asked, give brief responses (e.g., “I’m tied up later”) rather than long explanations. Let her wonder and stay curious.

5. That you were heartbroken or cheated on

Why: Disclosing being cheated-on or past heartbreak can be interpreted as evidence of emotional weakness, which may invite tests and reduce perceived value.
How to act: Avoid sharing relationship trauma with prospective partners; present yourself as emotionally stable and not needy.

Practical exercise recommended

Compare text conversations: review messages you exchanged with an ex who pulled away and compare them to messages with someone you’re casually seeing now. Notice differences in tone, urgency and emotionality.

Overall rationale (speaker’s framing)

The speaker advises conveying two main things:
1. You’re happy, healthy and “pre-selected” — life is easy for you.
2. You have a strong emotional backbone — you’re not overly emotional or needy.

These traits are presented as increasing attraction and perceived value.

Other notes

No travel, health routines, or recipes were discussed.
Speaker: an unnamed male dating coach / YouTuber (based on subtitles). No notable locations or products were mentioned.