Summary of Ep 1: Homesick and Disconnection from Ourselves
In the video titled "Ep 1: Homesick and Disconnection from Ourselves," Dr. Tama discusses the feelings of homesickness and disconnection from one's true self. She emphasizes that many people experience this disconnection due to various factors such as Trauma, rejection, and toxic environments. Dr. Tama shares insights and strategies to help individuals reconnect with themselves and embark on a journey of self-discovery and Healing.
Key Wellness Strategies and Self-Care Techniques:
- Recognizing Disconnection: Acknowledge feelings of homesickness and the signs of being disconnected from oneself, such as:
- Inability to articulate feelings.
- Chasing goals that don’t resonate personally.
- Internalizing others' expectations (the "shoulds").
- Tolerating unsatisfactory relationships or environments.
- Understanding Trauma: Recognize that Trauma can overwhelm normal coping mechanisms and disrupt one’s sense of identity.
- Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on personal feelings and experiences to understand when and how disconnection occurred.
- Solutions-Focused Therapy: Implement short-term therapeutic strategies that focus on identifying and reinstating past positive experiences that have worked for you.
- Nourishing Activities: Identify and commit to engaging in activities that nourish the spirit, such as:
- Dancing or movement.
- Meditation or prayer.
- Connecting with wise friends or mentors.
- Physical exercise or outdoor activities.
- Mindful Eating: Be conscious of how food and people affect your mood and overall well-being.
- Homework Commitment: Each listener is encouraged to commit to one nurturing activity that they have neglected and to do it within the week.
Closing Thoughts:
Dr. Tama emphasizes the importance of reconnecting with oneself and recognizing the journey home as a continual process. She encourages listeners to embrace their true selves and make conscious choices that lead to Healing and fulfillment.
Presenters/Sources:
- Dr. Tama (Psychologist, Minister, Sacred Artist)
Notable Quotes
— 01:24 — « The beautiful thing is when we come to the realization this is not who I am, this is not who I was born to be and I am clear this is not where I want to stay. »
— 04:35 — « It is amazing that you have been through all you have been through and you're still kind. »
— 05:37 — « There is a piece of me that holds on to hope that maybe possibly there can be more out of life. »
— 08:02 — « How many of us have worked at jobs that were ridiculous? I am raising my hand even though you can't see it. »
— 16:36 — « Busy is not the same thing as being healed. »
Category
Wellness and Self-Improvement