Summary of "Ways You Lose Aura With Women (TIER LIST)"

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The video discusses behaviors and situations that cause men to lose their “aura” or presence around women, negatively impacting attraction and respect. Here, “aura” refers to a man’s perceived confidence, dominance, and desirability. The presenter ranks these behaviors on a scale from no aura lost to brutal evisceration (complete loss).

Key Strategies and Advice to Preserve or Enhance Aura

Avoid Losing Fights in Front of Her Losing a physical fight publicly, especially in informal settings (bars, street fights), results in brutal aura loss. If a fight is unavoidable, remove her from the scene to protect your image. Winning or defending yourself successfully increases aura.
Limit Time Spent Around Her Being around a woman too much, especially early in a relationship, lowers sexual attraction. Absence makes the heart grow fonder: be less available to increase mystery and desirability. Manage your time wisely to avoid becoming “just a friend.”
Prefer Nighttime or Later Day Meetings Over Daytime Daytime interactions tend to be more mundane and less conducive to flirting or sexual escalation. Evening or night settings foster a more charismatic and intimate atmosphere.
Do Not Allow Disrespect in Front of Her Being disrespected by others in her presence significantly lowers aura. Stand your ground calmly and confidently; avoid insecure or aggressive reactions. Let her reject others if they hit on her while you remain composed.
Minimize Sliding into Her DMs Initiating contact via DMs causes minimal aura loss but can be perceived as giving away too much validation. High-status men with strong profiles can still use DMs effectively, but it’s less impactful than in-person approaches.
Show Intent Clearly but Subtly Not showing romantic or sexual intent risks friend-zoning. Use light compliments, subtle touching, or escalation to establish masculine-feminine polarity. Avoid over-flirting or excessive compliments.
Avoid Generic or “NPC” Openers in Texting Unoriginal openers like “Hey, how are you?” are boring and reduce attraction. Be creative and unique to stand out.
Never Show Jealousy or Insecurity Open displays of jealousy or insecurity cause brutal aura loss. If jealousy is shown, it must be playful and skillful, never emotional or angry. Maintain a mindset of being her best option without obsessing over her other options.
Avoid Crying in Front of Women Crying generally lowers aura, regardless of the reason. While vulnerability is sometimes appreciated, emotional displays like crying are often perceived as weakness.
Use Lower, Masculine Vocal Intonation Upward intonations (rising pitch at sentence ends) sound less masculine and reduce aura. Practice lowering pitch at the end of sentences to sound more authoritative and confident.
Eliminate Apologetic Language Overusing apologies or overly respectful language when approaching women signals low confidence. Speak with assertiveness and confidence; do not apologize for initiating contact or showing interest.
Have an Edge or Unique Personality Being bland or politically correct without any controversial opinions or personality traits diminishes aura. Show some boldness and uniqueness to stand out and command respect.
Maintain Good Relations with Her Friends Her friends’ opinions heavily influence her perception of you. Positive gossip boosts aura; negative gossip can brutally damage your standing. Make an effort to be liked or respected by her social circle.

Summary of Aura Loss Severity (Examples)

Brutal Evisceration (Complete Aura Loss)

Losing a fight in front of her (street fight)
Showing jealousy or insecurity openly
Being disrespected in front of her without standing ground
Using apologetic language excessively
Having no edge or personality
Negative gossip by her friends

Critical Hit (Significant Aura Loss)

Being around her too much / overfamiliarity
Upward intonations in speech
Being disrespected in front of her
Apologetic language

Minimal to Moderate Aura Loss

Sliding into her DMs
Seeing her in the daytime (personal preference)
Crying (context-dependent)
Not showing intent (risk of friend zone)
NPC openers in texts

Presenters and Sources

The video is presented by an unnamed male content creator focused on dating advice and male self-improvement.
References a video by Psych Hacks regarding attraction and familiarity.
Mentions his own community/group Esoteric Attraction Archives for dating help.

This summary captures the core advice and rankings from the video on maintaining a strong “aura” and presence with women by avoiding common pitfalls and adopting confident, strategic behaviors.