Summary of "How WOMEN artificially INFLATE their VALUE to make MEN CHASE (advanced female nature interest tests)"
Key Strategies and Insights on How Women Artificially Inflate Their Value to Make Men Chase Them
- Core Female Strategy: Women aim to make men emotionally invest and pursue them with minimal effort on their part. Their goal is to maintain power in the relationship by playing "hard to get" and filtering out men who appear weak or needy.
- Psychological Manipulation Tactics Women Use:
- Time Delays: Women often delay replying to texts or calls (sometimes 2-4 days or more) to test patience and see if men over-pursue or double-text, which signals desperation or low value.
- Interest Testing: Women give subtle signals (liking social media stories, sending emojis or comments) to show interest but then delay engagement to keep men guessing and chasing.
- Fear of Loss: Once dating consistently, women may post provocative selfies or go out with friends without contacting the man for extended periods to trigger jealousy and fear of losing them.
- Validation Seeking: Women want to feel like the prize by having multiple men pursue them simultaneously, boosting their self-esteem and perceived value.
- Filtering and Disqualifying: Women constantly look for reasons to say no or disqualify men to ensure only high-value men remain interested.
- Emotional Volatility: Women protect their emotions from masculine indifference by creating scenarios that provoke emotional reactions, testing men’s stoicism and patience.
- Male Mating Strategy vs Female Mating Strategy:
- Men generally seek quantity (many potential partners).
- Women seek quality (few, high-value partners).
- This inverse relationship explains women’s slower pace in emotional investment and their patience in dating.
- Understanding Female Perception of Love:
- Women take 3-6 months to emotionally invest and feel safe with a man, regardless of physical intimacy.
- Love for women is about long-term security and trust, not immediate chemistry or sex.
- Men’s urgency to move fast often backfires, showing desperation and lack of options.
- How to Counter These Strategies:
- Masculine Indifference: Maintain emotional control and do not react to manipulation tactics.
- Mirror Effect (from Robert Greene’s The Laws of Power): Replicate women’s behaviors (e.g., time delays in texting) to expose their emotional volatility and reduce their leverage.
- Patience and Time Delay: Don’t rush interactions or dates; allow relationships to develop slowly to align with female emotional timelines.
- Exercise Dating Abundance: Date multiple women to avoid desperation and maintain leverage; abundance signals high value.
- Continuous self-improvement: Improve physical fitness, financial status, charisma, and social life to increase sexual market value.
- Avoid Urgency: Don’t over-pursue or double-text; show that you have options and are not needy.
- Understand and Accept Female Nature: Recognize that women are not friends or unconditional supporters; they act primarily out of self-interest and survival instincts.
- Important Mindsets:
- Women are wired to compete and compare themselves to others, often hiding insecurities behind confidence.
- Women’s false confidence and manipulation tactics are survival mechanisms.
- Men must learn these dynamics over time through experience and not fall for common misconceptions or romanticized media portrayals.
- Both men and women have been misled by cultural myths about dating and relationships.
Wellness, Self-Care, and Productivity Tips for Men in Dating:
- Develop emotional resilience and masculine indifference to maintain control in dating interactions.
- Practice patience and avoid emotional urgency to increase attraction and maintain leverage.
- Build abundance in dating options to reduce desperation and increase confidence.
- Continuously improve yourself physically, financially, and socially to raise your sexual market value.
- Use strategic mirroring to maintain balance and expose manipulation.
- Manage expectations about female behavior and love timelines to reduce frustration and emotional burnout.
Presenters / Sources:
- The video is presented by an unnamed male dating coach who references Robert Greene’s book The Laws of Power (specifically Law 44: The Mirror Effect) as a tool for countering manipulation.
- The presenter also promotes his own MBT (Masculine Behavioral Technique) webinar for deeper learning on masculine dating strategies.
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Wellness and Self-Improvement
