Summary of "Закон вселенной: ТЫ ИЛИ ТЕБЯ. Борись. Арсен Маркарян"
Key Wellness Strategies, Self-Care Techniques, and Productivity Tips
Understand the Law of Expansion and Aggression
- Every living being naturally seeks to expand its influence and living space.
- Aggression is essentially an outward expansion that stops only when it meets equal aggression.
- To gain respect and maintain boundaries, one must assert themselves firmly and not tolerate disrespect.
Set and Defend Boundaries
- Do not allow others to violate your personal boundaries, regardless of their intentions or excuses.
- Excusing inappropriate behavior because of others’ circumstances (age, upbringing, ignorance) weakens your position.
- Respond to aggression or disrespect decisively rather than negotiating or trying to explain.
Apply Justified Force Against Unjust Violence
- The principle from Bushido: only honest and skilled violence can stop dishonest violence.
- Recognize when talking or negotiating is futile and act accordingly.
Reject Unbalanced Adaptation
- Do not always adapt to others’ expectations or demands; insist that others adapt to you when justified.
- Use others’ logic or justifications and turn them around to assert your own needs or boundaries.
Communicate as Equals
- Avoid conversations based on excuses or justifications.
- Engage in dialogue based on obligations and agreements, reflecting mutual respect and equality.
Presenters/Sources
- Arsen Markaryan
Category
Wellness and Self-Improvement
