Summary of "WOMEN get THE ICK when guys FAIL to communicate THIS WAY when dating (female nature turn offs shown)"
Key Wellness, Self-Care, and Productivity Tips for Dating Communication
- Avoid Overcommunication:
- Excessive talking or texting often decreases a woman’s interest.
- Overexplaining or sharing complex thoughts can lead to misunderstandings and emotional tests.
- Keep communication minimal and purposeful.
- Use Simple, Direct Sentences:
- Communicate in a straightforward, masculine style where “what it says is what it means.”
- Examples: “I am hungry. Come eat with me.” or “I will see you Saturday.”
- Avoid flirting or complex conversations over text.
- Treat Digital Communication as Defense, Not Offense:
- After dating has started, communication should maintain stability, not try to win affection.
- Sending unnecessary messages (e.g., “Text me when you get home”) invites emotional tests and can lower attraction.
- Wait for her to initiate communication sometimes.
- Be a Mystery, Not an Open Book:
- Women are attracted to men who don’t reveal everything or talk too much.
- Less communication signals confidence, stability, and higher dating value.
- Over-communicating signals neediness or lack of options.
- Focus on the Present Moment in Conversations:
- Talk about what is happening around you rather than past experiences or future plans.
- Avoid “future pacing” (planning future dates or experiences too early), as it can reduce the natural emotional dynamic and make you appear too eager.
- Let her bring up future plans first.
- Create a Fun, Positive Environment:
- Be the escape from daily stress by keeping conversations light, positive, and focused on the present environment.
- This builds attraction and makes you a desirable partner.
- Maintain Emotional Stability and Strength:
- Your communication should convey internal and external strength.
- Avoid showing stress, neediness, or vulnerability too early in communication.
- Summary of What Not to Do:
- Don’t flirt heavily over text.
- Don’t share every detail of your day or stress.
- Don’t initiate excessive texting or conversations without purpose.
- Don’t reveal your interest level through future planning or emotional messages.
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