Summary of "Handling Offense God’s Way - Andrew Wommack - Charis Daily - Season 9 Ep. 17"
Summary of Key Wellness and Relationship Strategies from Handling Offense God’s Way by Andrew Wommack
Andrew Wommack discusses biblical principles for handling offense and reconciling conflicts, particularly among believers, but applicable to others as well. The focus is on practical, godly steps to maintain peace and healthy relationships.
Key Strategies for Handling Offense and Reconciliation
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Accept that offenses will happen: Jesus said offenses are inevitable in relationships.
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Follow Jesus’ four-step process for reconciliation (Matthew 18:15-17):
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Go directly to the person who offended you, privately:
- Address the issue one-on-one before involving others.
- This step alone can resolve over 90% of conflicts.
- Avoid gossip or talking about the offense to others before confronting the person.
- Going directly prevents spreading misinformation or unnecessary conflict.
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If unresolved, bring one or two impartial witnesses:
- These witnesses should be neutral, not biased or pre-informed.
- Their role is to listen to both sides and help arbitrate fairly.
- This helps avoid pride-driven contention by providing fresh perspectives.
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If still unresolved, bring the matter before the church body:
- Historically, the church was responsible for reconciliation and judgment.
- Today, most churches do not fulfill this role effectively.
- If the church judges and the person refuses to repent, further action is taken.
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If the person refuses to repent after church judgment, treat them as a “heathen and publican”:
- This means no longer extending the same fellowship and acceptance as a believer.
- It is a form of church discipline, not condemnation to hell.
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Additional Important Points and Self-Care Tips
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Avoid speculative imagination: Do not assume or read into situations without facts. Misunderstandings often cause offense where none was intended. Ask directly rather than assuming motives or feelings.
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Recognize not everyone will get along: It’s impossible to be loved or accepted by everyone. Strive to live peaceably “as much as lies within you” (Romans 12), but accept reality.
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Apologize and repent when you offend others: Intentions don’t override how the other person receives your words or actions. A sincere apology can heal many wounds.
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Avoid gossip and spreading offense: Sharing negative opinions about others can worsen conflicts. Protect relationships by guarding what you share.
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Church’s role and limitations today: Many churches do not actively arbitrate or discipline members. This limits the effectiveness of biblical reconciliation processes. Some Christian legal groups offer arbitration as a substitute.
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Practical advice for relationships: Be direct and honest. Avoid letting offense rent space in your mind unnecessarily. Protect and defend those close to you rather than spreading criticism.
Resources Offered
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Free booklet: How to Stay Positive in a Negative World Focuses on relationships and maintaining positivity. Available via website or phone order.
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Prayer and partnership opportunities through Charis Daily and GTN.
Presenter / Source
Andrew Wommack Teacher and founder of Charis Bible College, presenting on Charis Daily (Season 9, Episode 17)
Category
Wellness and Self-Improvement
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