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Summary

Brendha Cardoso says that wanting something unavailable—such as travel, a relationship, or a creative project—can trigger frustration and reinforce beliefs about scarcity or not being enough. In her conscious-creation framework, the desire itself is not the problem; the key is noticing the beliefs and expectations it brings up.

She suggests focusing on the feeling you expect the desired thing to provide—such as freedom, security, or happiness—and finding ways to experience that feeling in the present. This avoids making your well-being depend on achieving a particular outcome. From a steadier state, it may be easier to notice new options and take small actions that are available now.

Strategies Discussed

• Treat frustration as a cue: Notice when a desire leads to feelings of limitation or failure, and consider what beliefs may be behind those feelings.
• Identify the underlying need: Ask what you expect the desired outcome to make you feel, rather than focusing only on the object or goal.
• Practice that feeling in the present: Look for accessible ways to feel more free, secure, or content now, even if they are not an exact substitute for the larger goal.
• Avoid making happiness conditional: Don’t treat money, a relationship, travel, or another result as a prerequisite for feeling whole.
• Take available, genuinely motivating actions: Ask, “What do I want to do now, just because I want to?” and act without needing to know exactly how it will lead to a bigger result.
• Stay open to unexpected routes: When beliefs and perspective shift, new ideas and opportunities may become easier to notice. The “how” does not have to be fully mapped out in advance.

As examples, Brendha describes wanting to travel and realizing that the anticipated feelings mattered more than the trip itself. She also shares an ALMAnaque group member’s idea to turn her designs into mugs. Financial obstacles brought up scarcity beliefs, and reconsidering those beliefs helped the member see other possible steps.

Presenters and Sources

Brendha Cardoso and an unnamed member of the ALMAnaque group, whose question is discussed.