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Last Lecture Series: How to Design a Winnable Game – Graham Weaver

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Graham Weaver uses his personal crisis during the 2008 crash—when a private equity firm he was part of struggled—to argue that winning comes from designing the right “game”: an aligned goal and operating approach that connects external outcomes with internal fulfillment. He then offers a practical four-step playbook for regaining traction when conventional methods stop working.

The “Winnable Game” Framework (4 Steps)

1) Choose a game that stirs your blood (aspirational, identity-building)

Core idea: If you choose a goal you truly care about, you show up differently, attract the right people, and persist longer.

Personal/professional translation:

  • Weaver compares his investing downturn to realizing he’d been playing the wrong game.
  • He had focused on effort (“play better, faster, harder”) without checking whether he was even playing the right game.

Goal-setting process mentioned:

  • Inspired by Brian Tracy: write your 3 most important goals daily in the present tense “as if already achieved,” plus what you’ll do each day to move toward them.

Business goal he sets (as an “Olympics” equivalent):

  • Become the #1 performing private equity fund in the world
  • Deliver 5x on every fund

Benchmark / KPI context (private equity):

  • “Top 25% of private equity firms” in any vintage often deliver about 1.8x–2x
  • Weaver claims their approach would produce results “several standard deviations better”

2) Design your own game (rewrite rules; build capabilities)

Core idea: The path everyone else is on is “crowded and well lit,” but that’s often exactly where you won’t find your edge.

Playbook: Conventional “rules” are often not rules—real rules can be few and chosen intentionally.

Weaver’s example of private equity “rules” they adopted:

  • Investors give us money; we must give it back eventually (ideally more)
  • Act ethically and according to their values
  • (Implied) Other conventions are improvable rather than fixed

Discovery questions to find “diamonds in the rough”:

  • What do customers hate about this industry/experience?
  • What won’t competitors do?
  • What problem breaks your heart?
  • What assumptions are you making?
  • What do you believe that few others agree with?

Bright-spot scaling method (operations/analytics emphasis):

  • Instead of only fixing weaknesses, they identified what was already working.
  • Process described:
    • Review portfolio outcomes using multiple cuts (e.g., growth rate, leverage)
    • Find commonality behind top deals even when metrics don’t look similar

Key pattern they found:

  • Their best deals shared an operational driver:
    • Deals that “went poorly” led them to replace leadership with someone from their own team or network to run the company.

Conclusion they draw:

  • “Probably 90%” of great results came from scaling what’s working.
  • Winning wasn’t about playing harder within the existing playbook—it was about building the capability to execute their chosen game.

Succession/market need (business rationale):

  • They noted ~80% of companies lacked a management succession plan, creating demand for leaders who can step in effectively.

Concrete actionable recommendation:

  • “Back your own teams” by installing capable operators when leadership fit is the limiting factor.
  • The work becomes building capabilities for the intended game, not optimizing within the crowded one.

3) Play with people you admire (values alignment + capability transfer)

Core idea: People shape identity. Misaligned people can silently change your goals and operating priorities.

Leadership/management story:

  • On Wall Street, a boss (“Larry”) denied time off even for personal obligations (e.g., dinner with his mother), and Weaver internalized that “model.”
  • At Alpine, a partner (“Billy”) enabled fatherhood participation and recognized value beyond pure grind.

Business translation (how to run teams):

  • Hire/select partners and team members who share values and support the “game” you designed.
  • Reduce cultural friction that causes “drift” back to the wrong identity and priorities.

4) Play now (reduce delay; start building identity immediately)

Core idea: Many people treat life milestones (“after I pay loans,” “after promotion,” “after kids are older”) as prerequisites. That delay is a risk.

Actionable stance:

  • Don’t wait for perfect conditions—your life is built in the “now” actions you take.
  • Winnable games are designed, not found on the sidelines.

Outcome Claims & KPI-like Results

  • After setting the aspirational goal, Alpine delivered:
    • 5x on four funds (three already delivered; fourth “on its way”)
  • These results are presented as evidence that identity-aligned goals plus tailored execution can outperform typical market bands (with top quartile benchmarks cited as roughly ~1.8x–2x).

Main Takeaways (Business Execution Oriented)

  • Set goals that are aspirational enough to change behavior and identity—not just “safe.”
  • Treat conventions as hypotheses: rewrite rules and build capabilities to execute the game you chose.
  • Use bright-spot scaling: replicate what’s already working systematically.
  • Engineer cultural/leadership alignment by choosing teammates who share values and support execution choices.
  • Start now—delay tends to entrench fear and the wrong game identity.

Presenters / Sources

  • Presenter: Graham Weaver
  • Referenced goal-setting author: Brian Tracy
  • Referenced inspiration quote: Daniel Burnham (“Make no little plans…”)

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