Dear future Wife

Overview

The speaker addresses their “future wife,” sharing how often they think about her and praying for her every day—asking God to bring them together. They also describe a commitment to personal growth and a faith-centered approach to love and partnership.

Faith-Centered Commitment

• Trust in Jesus and keep Him first.
• Place Jesus at the center of the relationship, so that “it’s always enough” during hard times.
• Define love as a choice, shown through actions—not just feelings.

Relationship Promises and Values

• Be her best friend and encourage her at every step.
• Never give up on her; stand by her through her struggles.
• When life feels heavy:
  • Meet her with a smile
  • Remind her that “His burden is light.”
• Choose each other consistently by:
  • Focusing on each other over money
  • Staying grounded in the love itself

Personal Growth Goals

• Grow into the “man” and partner she deserves.
• Learn patience, recognizing impatience as a weakness they’re working on.
• Avoid settling for “ordinary”—strive for a life with purpose.

Day-to-Day Life Together (As They Imagine It)

• Morning routine: coffee and him, with her looking beautiful “with no makeup.”
• A carefree love, where life feels light—“only oxygen to breathe,” not constant stress about money.
• Spontaneous trips, late-night conversations, and lots of affection:
  • endless kisses
  • cuddling
• Fun and shared joy, like rocking out to their favorite radio station.
• Encourage her to:
  • enjoy life
  • laugh often
  • make memories
• Live moment-to-moment, growing into the woman they believe Jesus has planned for her.

Biblical / Values Message About Love

• The speaker references the characteristics of love from 1 Corinthians 13, including:
  • patience and kindness
  • not being envious, boastful, or proud
  • not dishonoring or self-seeking
  • not being easily angered or keeping records of wrongs
  • rejoicing in truth, protecting, trusting, hoping, and persevering
• They promise to love her “like that,” believing it can surpass past pain.

Notable Mentions

• Speaker: “your future groom” (the narrator)
• Religious figure: Jesus (central theme)
• Locations/products: none mentioned beyond:
  • “our favorite radio station”
  • coffee (part of the morning routine)