How To Make Her Want You Instead Of Wasting Your Time

Summary

Coach Corey Wayne discusses a viewer reconnecting with a woman who had ghosted him years earlier. She later suggested meeting for a drink, but resisted his preference to meet at his home and canceled their plans. Wayne says the exchange was mishandled in places, but argues that the woman’s reluctance and attitude indicated limited interest.

Key Strategies Discussed

• Protect your time and self-respect. Wayne emphasizes that time is valuable and advises against over-investing in someone who previously disappeared without explanation.
• Look for reciprocal interest. Pay attention to whether the other person responds enthusiastically, follows through, and makes an effort—not just whether they get back in touch.
• Set boundaries instead of chasing. Offer a plan that suits you. If the other person declines, step back rather than repeatedly trying to persuade them.
• Let the other person reinitiate. After the woman canceled, Wayne advises the viewer not to bring up another meeting unless she does. If she contacts him again, he can respond without immediately pursuing a date.
• Consider communication and compatibility. Wayne favors partners who are pleasant, flexible, and easy to make plans with. He interprets resistance as a sign of low interest, though it may also reflect personal preferences or comfort.
• Don’t assume a reconnection signals serious intent. Someone may reconnect when newly single or around the holidays, so it’s wise to consider their actions rather than assume they want a relationship.

Wayne’s specific tactic was to suggest meeting at his home, then give her space if she preferred not to. This is his dating advice, not a universal rule; both people’s comfort and boundaries matter when choosing where to meet.

Presenter and Sources

• Presenter: Coach Corey Wayne
• Source: An anonymous viewer’s email, read and discussed in the video
• Materials referenced: Seven Principles to Get an Ex Back and How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne