Summary of لماذا تفشل في تحقيق اهدافك ؟ العادات الذرية - الجزء الثاني

The video discusses the reasons many people fail to achieve their goals and emphasizes the importance of habits and identity in this process, drawing from the concepts in James Clear's book "Atomic Habits." Here are the key wellness strategies, self-care techniques, and productivity tips highlighted in the video:

Key Strategies and Techniques:

• Understand the Role of Goals:
  • Setting goals is essential, but simply having them does not guarantee success. Goals serve as motivation and direction.
• Focus on Habits:
  • 95% of daily actions are unconscious habits. To achieve new goals, one must replace old habits with new ones.
  • Example: Instead of using a mobile phone first thing in the morning, replace that time with productive activities like reading or exercising.
• Three Layers of Change:
  • Identity: The deepest layer; changing your identity is crucial for lasting change.
  • Habits: The second layer; habits are the actions that stem from your identity.
  • Results/Goals: The outer layer; goals are the outcomes of your habits and identity.
• Clarity in Goals:
  • Set specific, measurable, and time-bound goals. Avoid vague goals that lack clarity.
  • Example: Instead of saying "I want to lose weight," specify "I want to lose 10 kilos by June."
• Develop a System:
  • Establish systems and routines that support your goals. Systems are the actions and habits that lead to achieving your goals.
  • Example: If the goal is to get a job, improve your CV by acquiring new skills relevant to the job market.
• Change Your Identity:
  • To achieve long-term goals, one must adopt the identity that aligns with those goals (e.g., becoming a healthy person rather than just wanting to lose weight).
  • This involves changing your mindset and daily behaviors to reflect this new identity.
• Continuous Improvement:
  • Regularly review and assess your progress towards your goals. Adjust your habits and systems as necessary to stay aligned with your identity and goals.

Presenters/Sources:

• Nasser Al-Aqeel (founder and presenter of the Dova Mikafine channel)
• James Clear (author of "Atomic Habits")

Notable Quotes

— 00:18 — « Only one succeeds in achieving them. So, my dear friend, the idea is not just about setting goals in life. Setting goals does not necessarily mean achieving them. »

— 09:38 — « Goals are the gasoline of life. Goals are the motivation. They are what make you wake up every day to advance in your life. »

— 22:08 — « If you do not change your concepts and your identity as a person, you will fail to continue doing these habits and you will fail to achieve. »

— 27:56 — « He used to say, 'I saw people who go and cut their stomachs in order to lose weight.' He focused on losing weight, and the action was to cut the stomach, but the identity did not change him. »

Category

Wellness and Self-Improvement

Video