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How I Got Over | Ettore Ewen | TEDxDavenport

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Key takeaways

Wellness and Self-Improvement

Key Wellness Strategies, Self-Care Techniques, and Productivity/Progression Tips

  • Acknowledge that depression lies

    • Depression is described as distorting self-worth and blocking the ability to enjoy life’s positive aspects.
    • Strategy: Challenge the “misinformation” the depressed brain produces over time.

  • Continue treatment while using self-care tools as support

    • He emphasizes intensive clinical care matters (medications, psych ward care, electroconvulsive therapy).
    • Later, he adds a practical wellness lever: daily meditation.

  • Commit to a simple daily routine—meditation

    • During COVID lockdown, he removes excuses and decides to meditate every day.
    • Technique:
      • Use a guided meditation app (10 minutes)
      • Focus on slowing breathing
      • Notice and release held tension (neck and shoulders)
      • Let mental busyness slow down
    • Progression:
      • Early effects: subtle calming (even if not “immediate”)
      • Over months: feeling lighter, becoming softer with self, reduced rumination

  • Use meditation to practice “letting go”

    • Repeated guidance helps him:
      • Let thoughts/wounds arise, acknowledge them, and let them pass
      • Release resentment (especially toward his father)
      • Reduce overthinking
      • Shift from fear (“something bad is always coming”) to staying present

  • Reframe life events with a values-based lens

    • After an injury ends his wrestling career, he shifts from loss to meaning:
      • Replace mourning with gratitude
      • Replace blame with empathy
      • Replace anxiety about the future with presence and confidence in coping

  • Build agency (move from reacting to responding)

    • Meditation helps him stop reflexive emotional spirals.
    • He describes meditation as moving him from “passenger in my own mind” to being in the driver’s seat—responding with grace rather than automatic sadness/anger.

  • Adopt a “save yourself” mindset

    • He recalls a guiding maxim:

      “Nobody’s coming to save you. So, why not save yourself?”

    • Strategy: Self-responsibility paired with seeking help (therapy, medication when needed).

Presenters / Sources

  • Presenter: Aric Yuen (TEDxDavenport)
  • Referenced company/source: WWE
  • Referenced show/event: SmackDown
  • Referenced app/source: A guided meditation app (unnamed in subtitles)
  • Referenced medical treatments: nortriptyline, Risperdal, electroconvulsive therapy (ECT), EMTs/hospital care

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