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Karla Elia’s “List of 3s”

Karla Elia shares her personal approach to finding a compatible partner, which she calls her “List of 3s.” She presents it as a strategy that worked for her—not a guarantee—and says it is intended for women who are ready to date and feel confident after working through heartbreak and healing.

Steps

1. Clarify why you want a partner now. Consider what you want from a relationship and the kind of future you hope to build.

2. Focus your intention. Karla describes manifestation as a sustained, strong desire. Depending on your beliefs, you might use prayer or journaling.

3. Prioritize standards over feelings. She compares building a relationship to building a team: choose someone suited to your long-term goals rather than overlooking important incompatibilities.

4. Write a “List of 3s” to guide your dating. Include:

   • Three non-negotiables: Traits or circumstances you cannot accept. Karla’s examples include addictions, already having children, and not having a provider or family-oriented mindset.
   • Three essential personality traits: Qualities that help you feel compatible and attracted to someone, such as humor, spirituality, or sociability.
   • Three physical traits: Features that matter to your attraction. Karla’s examples are smile, legs, and height.

5. Be realistic and consider compromise. Focus on a few priorities rather than expecting a perfect partner.

6. Take time to reflect. Karla says the list should take longer than a day to create. Meditate on it, then use it as a guideline while dating.

Next Step

Karla introduces “rotational dating” as her next strategy but does not explain it in this video.

Presenter/source: Karla Elia