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Age 25 vs 35: What I Wish I Knew Sooner

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Key takeaways

Wellness and Self-Improvement

Key wellness strategies, self-care techniques, and productivity/progression tips

1) Don’t use training to escape mental health problems

  • He describes his younger training as high-volume “hit every day” and pushing to failure, driven by poor mental health—essentially an escape.
  • Takeaway: If exercise is harming you (injuries, burnout, neglecting responsibilities), it’s not helping—it’s a hindrance.

2) Avoid extreme or “all-or-nothing” overtraining patterns

  • He regrets some very intense, overtraining-style workouts (especially from the 2010s) and suggests dialing them back.
  • Practical implication:
    • Fun workouts are fine, but cut sets/volume if needed (he mentions “half it” as a guideline idea).

3) Reframe “cheat days” toward sustainability and mental balance

  • He changed his approach due to a history of stress-related eating / eating disorder patterns.
  • Current approach: “85/15” eating
    • 85%: nutritious, tasty, healthy foods (seasonings allowed)
    • 15%: small portions of less-ideal foods that support enjoyment/sanity (“good for your soul”)
  • Sunday as a mental day off:
    • He says tracking is a personal tool for avoiding overeating.
  • Avoid “cheat day as a challenge”:
    • He criticizes treating it like a competition (e.g., “eat like Matt Stonie”); it’s not healthier long-term.
  • Wellness emphasis:
    • Prioritize enjoying life and social time (he regrets skipping meals with friends earlier in life).

4) Recovery is non-negotiable (mobility + sleep + stress control)

  • Daily/consistent recovery habits:
    • Yoga and mobility routines
    • Sleep enough: pick a consistent bedtime instead of running on fumes
    • Stress management / meditation to reduce cortisol and improve resilience
  • He emphasizes that people often don’t get aches/pains under control until they are consistent with daily routines.

5) Cardio should support your life, not sabotage it

  • He used to do lots of cardio daily (running, burpees, CrossFit-style workouts, jump rope, boxing).
  • Downsides he noticed:
    • Burnout, irritability, and “frying” the central nervous system
    • Less energy for work/responsibilities
  • Current cardio framework:
    • Zone 2 cardio (can maintain a conversation)
    • Sometimes moderate cardio
    • Walking 10,000–15,000 steps/day
    • Sprints 1–2x/week (he argues sprinting shouldn’t be abandoned, and references reasons older people may stop)

6) Train for athletic function, not just aesthetics

  • His goal shift in the 30s:
    • Can I run/sprint/jump?
    • Can I punch?
    • Do I have energy and feel good?
    • Can I carry decent strength and movement?
  • He describes being “secure now,” focusing on capabilities rather than needing to “prove” himself.

7) Use corrective movement + functional training every session

  • Always include:
    • Corrective movements to protect previous injury areas (elbows/knees/shoulders)
    • Functional movements with real-life carryover (e.g., carrying/carryover ability)
  • He stresses that modern workout injuries are easy to accumulate if corrective/functional work is ignored.

8) Calisthenics can cause injuries if weaknesses aren’t addressed

  • Key warning: Calisthenics may not balance strength evenly; the body can overcompensate for weak links.
  • Example mechanism:
    • Strong back/pull-ups but weaker forearms/elbows/biceps → overcompensation → possible strains (e.g., golfer’s elbow)
  • Conclusion: Combine calisthenics with corrective work and strength balance to reduce injury risk.

9) Stop tying your worth to body fat/abs

  • He criticizes the narrative that “six-pack = attractiveness/success,” and that losing abs is tied to disgust or failure.
  • A personal reframing experience:
    • Even when he wasn’t shredded, connection and personality still led to a positive outcome.
  • Wellness takeaway: Get in shape for health and confidence—but don’t let abs define your identity.

Presenters or sources mentioned

  • Knees Over Toes Guy (referenced for knee-strengthening ideas/exercises)
  • Anime / creators referenced indirectly (e.g., Dragon Ball Z, Hajime no Ippo, Kenichi, Kenichi: The Mightiest Disciple; plus Spider-Man and examples like Goku/Hulk/Broly as motivation)
  • Matt Stonie (used as an example of “cheat day as a challenge”)

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