Aditiya Sir ने क्यों नहीं किया शादी ? | Shubhankar Mishra

Aditya Sir on Marriage and Career

Aditya Sir says he hasn’t married because he doesn’t feel mentally ready and wants to focus on work. The conversation opens with jokes about his mother repeatedly asking when he’ll get married. He even says he avoids eating with her until she’s asleep to dodge the questions, and quotes a Gangs of Wasseypur line about growing up but still being unmarried.

He says the timing doesn’t feel right and that he still has many goals to pursue. He’s also cautious about choosing the wrong partner: after working hard to build a career, a troubled marriage could seriously affect someone’s finances, mental health, and ability to work.

When asked to choose between a relationship and a job, he picks the job, saying it can help fulfil his parents’ dreams and benefit future generations. A cheeky exchange about marriage briefly threatens to get “controversial,” so the hosts move on.

Advice for Exam Aspirants

Aditya advises new aspirants not to let every setback or negative headline overwhelm them. He encourages them to allow extra time for preparation and keep going honestly.

For maths, students should identify whether they need to strengthen their fundamentals, concepts, or calculation speed, then practise accordingly. Coaching isn’t essential, he says, but a good teacher can save time by teaching shortcuts—often at a relatively affordable cost.

Staying Calm on Exam Day

Aditya advises students to stay calm, avoid unnecessary arguments, and maintain a positive mindset. He recalls taking his first CHSL exam with little pressure because he thought he wasn’t suited for it, then being surprised by his score. The story illustrates his view that excessive seriousness and nerves can hurt performance.

He also mentions a talented student whose hand trembles from anxiety as soon as she picks up a pen.

Exam Questions and Answer Evaluations

Aditya expresses frustration with questionable exam questions and inconsistent answer evaluations. One bizarre example was a question about Katrina Kaif’s height. He also describes cases where different exam authorities treated disputed maths questions differently.

The conversation touches on public disagreements between coaching teachers, which the hosts joke can become entertainment in the comments.

A Lesson from Online Trolling

Near the end, Aditya calls a past promise to give selected students a small gift a childish mistake. It sparked controversy and online trolling, and he says the experience taught him how quickly people can turn on you.

Personalities

• Shubhankar Mishra — Host and interviewer
• Aditya Sir — Guest