10 Things That Push Me Down into the Vortex in the Bedroom

Victoria’s Bedroom Preferences

Victoria describes ten personal preferences, emphasizing that they are her own kinks—not a guide to what all women want. She says these dynamics should be explored only after trust is established, with mutual interest and a clear understanding that role-play is not real abuse.

1. Visible desire: She enjoys her boyfriend openly expressing attraction and making her feel desired and appreciated.
2. Consensual roughness: She likes some forceful, physically assertive behavior, but says it should never be assumed or attempted without agreement.
3. Gentle dominance and DDLG: She enjoys being called “princess,” playful teasing, and a nurturing dominant/submissive dynamic.
4. Teasing about insecurities: She likes playful humiliation and teasing about personal vulnerabilities as part of a consensual kink.
5. Fantasy talk and stories: She enjoys her partner bringing up her fantasies during sex and sometimes telling or recording erotic stories for her.
6. Role-playing a misogynistic character: She likes joking, staged name-calling and abusive-boyfriend role-play, while stressing that both partners should know it is pretend.
7. Encouraging emotional expression: She appreciates being invited to express intense feelings and impulses, provided both partners feel comfortable and safe.
8. Playful challenges: She enjoys testing or provoking her partner and likes confident, witty responses.
9. Wrestling: She enjoys consensual physical play and wrestling.
10. Compliments: She likes receiving frequent praise and compliments during sex.

Broader Advice

Victoria advises learning what a specific partner enjoys rather than making assumptions, building trust gradually, and not demanding that someone be submissive. She favors showing confidence through behavior rather than simply claiming dominance.

People and References

Victoria is the speaker. Her boyfriend and Sterling Cooper, a previous interview guest, are mentioned. TikTok is also referenced. No specific travel locations or products are discussed.