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Abraham Hicks- If You Feel STUCK In Life, Start Doing These Things Everyday To Make A Change 💕🙌

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Key takeaways

Wellness and Self-Improvement

Key wellness + self-care + productivity strategies (from the subtitles)

  • Shift from “observing” to “deliberate intending”

    • Life can feel like a trap when you keep focusing on what you already have and therefore attract more of it.
    • Practice choosing a different focus: be less of an observer and more of a definer/intentional creator.

  • Manage thoughts by improving your “feeling vantage point”

    • The Law of Attraction creates momentum because your thoughts generate experiences you then notice.
    • Instead of trying to “break” thoughts by force, look for better-feeling perspectives.
    • Use softer, lower-resistance thinking (example given: “wonder”) to reduce resistance.

  • Use meditation as an “evidence-based” self-care experiment

    • Esther notices that on days she meditates, the day goes better—like noticing food makes you sick, or caffeine affects you.
    • Treat it like personal feedback: if a practice consistently improves how you feel, keep it.

  • Aim for “how you feel is what you’re getting” (align actions with preferred outcomes)

    • When you do things merely to avoid negatives, it feels unsatisfying.
    • Reframe: do what you prefer (or do the required steps in a way that supports what you prefer).
    • If you avoid meditating and then feel bad about not meditating, that’s a sign to “decaffeinate” the cycle (stop the pattern of planning and not following through).

  • Follow-through micro-goals to create vibrational momentum

    • Don’t overcomplicate: choose small, doable commitments like quieting your mind for 10 minutes (or 15 if you can).
    • If you wake up and don’t feel like doing it, make it easy:
      • Sit up
      • Put feet on the floor
      • Take a brief moment to be awake/alive and quiet your mind on purpose
    • The point: a small energy shift creates different results for the day.

  • Delegate—don’t over-responsibilize

    • Excessive “serving” / doing for others can reduce everyone’s empowerment.
    • The advice emphasizes two kinds of delegation:
      • Delegate tasks to others so they can do things for themselves.
      • Delegate to the universe (trusting timing and help) rather than forcing everything via guilt and struggle.

  • When you’re “called,” it feels freeing—when you’re “pushed,” it feels enslaving

    • Doing tasks feels good when you’re inspired/called, not when you feel assigned/pushed.
    • If you notice “should have/could have” lists and self-cracking your whip, pause and return to impulses that feel fun and freeing.

  • Reduce guilt and self-pity to allow support to “show up”

    • Feeling sorry for yourself reduces the sense of receiving help (it can feel contradictory, but the message is that the energetic alignment changes what you experience).
    • Trust that resources and help arrive when your intentions are clearer and you feel better.

  • Stop playing “the responsible default”

    • If you take on too much so you’re needed/popular, it can feel good initially but leads to dependence and resentment dynamics.
    • Build independence by becoming the person who can receive help, not the one always carrying others’ needs.

Presenters / sources

  • Abraham Hicks (including Esther as referenced in the subtitles)
  • Jerry (referred to as “Jerry used to say…”)

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