Why She Didn’t Want To Kiss You

Summary

Coach Corey Wayne discusses why a man might be rejected when he tries to kiss a woman, drawing on a viewer’s experiences across three dates. His main point is that the viewer focused on what he wanted to do instead of paying attention to the woman’s level of interest.

Advice from the video

• Look for signs of reciprocal interest, such as her initiating touch, leaning toward you, playing with her hair, laughing, or turning her body toward you. The coach contrasts these with distant or closed-off body language.
• Don’t treat a date as proof of romantic interest. Screen for enthusiasm when arranging the date and during conversation, and avoid dates where the interaction feels forced or one-sided.
• Don’t use suggested phrases from a book mechanically. Speak in your own words rather than sounding scripted.
• Keep compliments sincere and limited; repeated compliments can come across as insincere.
• Pay attention to how the date is going, and avoid investing more time and money when interest seems unreciprocated.
• The coach recommends making a move at the end of the date rather than verbally asking whether she wants to kiss. He says that if she declines, the viewer should accept it as a sign to move on. This is the coach’s advice; the video does not discuss explicit verbal consent in detail.

The viewer’s three examples

• Coffee and a daytime walk: She didn’t reciprocate his attempts at touch and said she wasn’t feeling a kiss. The coach says her lack of response was already a sign of low interest.
• Wine bar: She sat across from him, seemed uncomfortable with his compliments, and ended the date after about two and a half hours. The coach views these as signs that she wasn’t interested.
• Drink date: The conversation seemed enjoyable, but she declined a kiss, saying she was recovering from the flu, and agreed to meet again for mini golf. The coach cautions that agreeing to another date doesn’t necessarily mean romantic interest and questions whether another date is worth pursuing.

Notable details

• Speaker: Coach Corey Wayne
• Locations and activities: A coffee walk, a wine bar, a drink date, and a proposed mini-golf date
• Product mentioned: 3% Man by Corey Wayne