Abraham Hicks- Impatience Is Standing In The Way Of Your Desire ❤️

Key Wellness / Self-Care / Productivity Strategies (from the discussion)

• Practice patience by treating impatience as a sign of resistance

  • Impatience with an unfulfilled desire isn’t evidence of failure—it’s a signal that you’re resisting what you want.
  • Shift the focus from waiting to finding joy in the process (even if results take time).

• Use “process-focused” attention to accelerate outcomes

  • When you desire something but focus on how far away you are, you can fuel:
    • frustration
    • inferiority
    • incompleteness
  • This may create a feedback loop where progress feels like it moves you forward while the result stays “the same distance away.”
  • Instead: focus on feelings that match the desire—joy, love, gratitude, passion.

• Treat negative emotions as an internal alignment indicator

  • Negative emotions (disappointment, fear, anger, rage, etc.) are described as indicators that you’ve added resistance to the flow of your request.
  • In this framing, “negative emotion” means you hit the brakes—you’re not allowing what you asked for to come through.

• Stop blaming external circumstances for your emotional state

  • Avoid the trap of thinking, “I only feel this because of something outside me.”
  • The implied guidance:
    • recognize that your feelings are influenced by what you focus on
    • avoid trying to control or destroy what you don’t want, because resisting it internally blocks well-being.

• Re-learn authenticity by deliberately choosing thoughts/actions that feel good

  • “To feel good, you must allow who you really are to freely express yourself.”
  • Consciously contemplate and feel what gives pleasant resonance.
  • If your environment has distorted your sense of what’s “good” vs “bad,” relearn by using your feelings as the guide.

• Follow the “path of least resistance” (Art of Allowing / Permission)

  • Instead of forcing focus on the outcome, find the way to allow the energy to flow right now.
  • Key question:
    • “What could I think/say/remember/imagine/pay attention to that would feel the best I can right now?”
  • If focusing on the topic ramps up frustration, step away from the topic to return to a state of better alignment.

• Use a 3-step request/manifestation framework

  • Step 1: Ask (often; contrast helps refine preferences)
  • Step 2: Universe responds (described as happening at the moment of the request)
  • Step 3: Allow / Acceptance (most important—your job is to enter acceptance)
    • “Let it go” by softening resistance.

• Avoid “letting it go” while angry, scared, annoyed, guilty, blaming, or down

  • The guidance is explicit: you never let it in from those emotional states.
  • Letting it in happens when you feel:
    • joy
    • love
    • gratitude
    • generally feeling good

• Replace “please give me” energy with gratitude-based “allowing” energy

  • Example shift:
    • Step 1 prayer: “Oh, please give me what I really, really need…”
    • Step 3 prayer: “I am so grateful for this wonderful thing…”

• Avoid high-conflict communication as “greatest resistance”

  • Talking more about what annoys you can intensify resistance (especially with family, friends, or colleagues).
  • A head-on collision is often not the least-resistance path.

Presenters / Sources

• Abraham Hicks (as referenced by the video title)