Summary of "5 Going Gray Don'ts"
Overview
Summary of Lisa (This Organic Girl) on five things NOT to do when going gray — practical tips, mindset advice, and product guidance.
Key takeaways (Don’ts and practical notes)
Don’t use the wrong toner shampoo
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Use purple shampoo to neutralize yellow/brassy tones — purple cancels yellow.
Purple cancels yellow.
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Avoid blue shampoos — blue + yellow can leave a green tinge.
- Only use purple shampoo if you actually see yellow/brassiness; if your gray is already bright/white you don’t need it.
- Common causes of yellowing: pollution, UV exposure, product buildup, medications, etc.
Don’t force the transition before you’re ready
- Wait until you feel fully committed — uncertainty can make the process harder.
- Some people find doing one “last dye” gives closure and helps clarify the decision.
Don’t go it alone
- Seek support from friends, family, and online communities — compliments and encouragement help maintain momentum.
- Lisa recommends her Facebook community for support.
Don’t limit your options
- Many transition styles work; there’s no single “right” way. Options include:
- Cold-turkey grow out
- Shaving the head
- Short pixie
- Highlights or lowlights
- Ombré or partial color
- Toners
- Returning to dyeing later
- Try what makes you feel good — experimentation is okay.
Don’t listen to naysayers
- Ignore people who discourage you (e.g., “you’ll look old”).
- Follow and compare people who have gone through the transition — many look softer and more confident afterward.
Practical extras
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Hairdresser advice: sometimes “ride it out” is the best approach.
Sometimes the best move is to ride it out.
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Community size note: Lisa’s Facebook group, The Gray Book, has thousands of members; community feedback (even from strangers in places like Whole Foods) can be uplifting.
Notable speaker, groups, and products
- Speaker: Lisa (This Organic Girl)
- Recommended product: purple shampoo (use when yellowing is present); avoid blue shampoo if yellowing is present
- Community: Facebook group “The Gray Book”
- Mentioned location: Whole Foods (as an example of receiving supportive comments)
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