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EVERYTHING Women Are Attracted To (TIER LIST)

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Overview

The video is a “male dating attraction” tier list that ranks traits women supposedly find attractive. It uses categories such as:

  • OP (overpowered / highest tier)
  • Non-negotiable (required)
  • Very attractive (a major plus)
  • Overrated
  • Doesn’t matter (low impact)

The creator frames the entire topic like an optimization game, with edgy commentary aimed at “blackpill” guys and “Chads,” plus lots of exaggerated reactions and jokes for emphasis.

Main Plot / Structure

  1. Introduces the tier system: OP, non-negotiable, very attractive, overrated, doesn’t matter.
  2. Runs through a long list of traits, arguing not only what matters, but when it matters (e.g., online vs real life, early dating vs long-term bonding).
  3. Key recurring theme:

    Superficial traits get you in the door, but social/emotional dominance keeps interest.

Key Highlights & Arguments

Height

  • Labeled non-negotiable, but the creator argues its importance is overblown online.
  • Claims height matters most near extreme ends, and that women’s “height standards” aren’t as precise as men assume.
  • Includes jokes about lying about height.

Looks (Facial Attractiveness)

  • Also non-negotiable.
  • Claimed to matter more than height, especially early on.
  • He argues looks fade in importance as women get to know you.

Status (Major Pivot)

  • Ranked above looks and height because it helps maintain attraction long-term.
  • Examples include:
    • being known as a leader
    • being the “best player”
    • having prestige jobs
  • Presented as social proof.

Fame

  • OP (his most extreme take).
  • Fame allegedly provides “near-infinite options,” and even “Chads” struggle to maintain top-tier attention without constant validation/opportunities.
  • Uses meme/analogy logic like:

    Fame is like receiving “special treatment.”

Masculinity

  • Placed at the bottom of non-negotiable.
  • Claims that lacking a masculine frame leads to eventual attraction loss, linked to perceived lack of safety or needy behavior.

Muscles vs Physique

  • Muscles: overrated
    • He claims women often prefer leaner, more nuanced attractiveness over bulky, “roid” vibes.
  • Physique/build shape: more important
    • broad shoulders, low body fat, “Dorito shape.”

Frame / Leadership Vibe

  • Very attractive
  • Emphasis on being the one who leads conversations and holds attraction over time.

Money

  • Basically ranked “doesn’t matter” for attraction—especially for 18–24 women in college.
  • Then pivots into a warning:
    • Don’t “lead with your wallet.”
    • He calls women “opportunists” who may categorize you as a provider rather than desiring you sexually.

Lifestyle

  • Treated as a better “shiny object” alternative:
    • travel, excitement, fun (examples like jet skis/Bahamas).

Charisma

  • Very attractive, but secondary.
  • He argues charisma is harder to access without already having higher-tier traits.

Humor

  • Called extremely attractive.
  • Claims humor can reduce looks/height requirements if executed correctly.
  • Mentions “jester maxing” as a term he didn’t know.

Social Skills

  • Non-negotiable
  • He claims many good-looking men fail due to:
    • being awkward
    • phone-focused
    • not entering a “flow state”
  • Recommends “exposure therapy” style practice:
    • practice socializing
    • fail at first
    • improve through repetition

Confidence

  • Non-negotiable
  • Framed as self-congruence and belief.

Intelligence

  • Doesn’t matter (his bluntest take).
  • Claims “smart nerds don’t pull” and are seen as boring/too “realistic.”

Pre-selection / Social Proof

  • Extremely powerful and OP
  • Claims women buy into group dynamics:

    If other women want you, your perceived value spikes.

Personality

  • Said to matter less than the emotions you create.

Religion

  • Claimed to “turn off” most women (with exceptions).
  • Argument presented (edgily):

    the hottest women allegedly prefer “sin/bad vibes” over virtuous/religious men.

Emotional Strength

  • OP
  • Targets “needy/simpy” behavior.
  • Claims women test your emotional control and respect over time.

Ambition

  • Overrated
  • Clarified as “provider potential,” not personal drive.

Race

  • Claims some race preferences exist and places it near non-negotiable (or very impactful).
  • Still says it doesn’t define everything.

Romance

  • Advises against being overly romantic.
  • Flowers/chocolate are framed as making you seem beneath or forgettable.

Edgy / “Bad Boy” Traits

  • Very attractive
  • He argues being “a problem” and making controversial jokes creates emotional engagement and fantasy about changing you.
  • Adds a caveat:
    • changing women too much backfires.

Stoicism

  • Overrated externally
  • He argues “stoic on the inside, not on the outside” because a flat/empty exterior can seem boring.

Competence

  • Top of very attractive
  • Knowing how to fix things signals masculinity.

Patience

  • Non-negotiable
  • Don’t rush girlfriend status.
  • He argues high-quality long-term dating requires slowing the timeline.

Being Offensive / Selfishness

  • Very attractive
  • Framed as emotional engagement and self-obsession that signals leadership/resources.
  • Mocks “good listener” as overrated.

Mystery

  • Very attractive
  • Being hard to reach keeps interest.

Coldness

  • He says too much coldness turns women off.
  • But still claims coldness ultimately doesn’t matter.

Standout Jokes / Tone

  • Constant “internet vs real life” comparisons, often aimed at “blackpill” commenters.
  • Lots of crude censoring and placeholder insults (e.g., "[__]") while arguing stereotypes.
  • Repeated meme-logic such as:
    • fame = infinite woman glitch
    • “nerf this”
    • “Chad levels”
    • “women are addicted to clout”
  • Punchy shock claims, e.g.:
    • lying about height
    • “women don’t actually know the exact number”

List of Personalities Appearing (as referenced / role-played)

  • The Tier-List Creator / Narrator (main speaker)
  • “Blackpillers” / “black pillars” (audience he argues with)
  • “Chads” (stereotype group used for comparisons)
  • Kevin Hart (example referenced for fame)
  • Dr. Orion Terban / Haacks (referenced as a YouTuber quote/source)
  • Andrew Tate (mentioned as a lifestyle reference point)

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