DITCH THE DATING APPS: DO THIS 1 THING EVERY DAY TO MEET WOMEN

Summary

Coach Kyle argues that dating has changed substantially since COVID. Dating apps are crowded, AI and better phone cameras have made polished profiles less distinctive, and social media gives women more ways to meet people without going out. He says nightlife—especially late-night clubbing—is less reliable for meeting women than it used to be.

He cites a figure that fewer than 10% of couples in serious relationships in 2026 met through online services, though no source for this figure is provided in the subtitles.

Main Recommendation: Make Socializing Part of Everyday Life

Rather than relying mainly on dating apps or nightlife, Coach Kyle recommends building regular, low-pressure opportunities to meet people:

• Use dating apps as a supplement. Keep your photos and appearance polished, but expect strong competition.
• Set aside time to socialize. Spend 20–30 minutes a few times a week being more sociable in places you already go. He says even 2–3 hours a week can help build momentum.
• Start with small interactions. Give compliments, make small talk, and chat with baristas or other people nearby. Get comfortable talking with both men and women.
• Use your existing routine. Look for opportunities during lunch breaks, commutes, errands, walks, or before and after workouts.
• Try recurring activities. Running clubs, yoga, boxing, and MMA can help you meet people and build a wider social circle.
• Explore lively public areas on weekends. Consider city centers, waterfronts, and shopping malls.
• If you go out at night, consider earlier evening venues. He cautions against assuming that attractive, successful women will be at clubs until 3 a.m. People can still meet through apps and nightlife, but neither needs to be the only option.

The broader idea is to build an active, healthy social routine that creates repeated opportunities to meet people, rather than making a special trip somewhere every day solely to find a date.

Notable Locations and Products

Locations and venues: Miami, Los Angeles, New York, New Jersey; cafes, gyms, Pilates and hot-yoga studios, running clubs, waterfronts, city centers, shopping malls, sushi restaurants, lounges, and nightclubs.

Products and brands: iPhones, DSLR cameras, Instagram, Zara, Forever 21, and Skims.

Speaker

Coach Kyle