How to Achieve Your DESIRE (This Will Change Your Life)

Summary

The video is a four-option pick-a-card reading. The presenter suggests choosing a group based on an immediate visual attraction or how each crystal feels to you. Each group offers a different approach to pursuing a goal.

Group 1: Build Self-Belief and Take Practical Steps

• Treat yourself as worthy of your goal instead of placing it so far out of reach that it feels impossible.
• Ground the goal in action: plan steps, develop needed skills, and begin with the resources you already have.
• Make a written inventory of your accomplishments, abilities, and positive qualities to recognize what you can already draw on.
• Replace harsh self-criticism with encouragement and positive reinforcement.
• Let yourself create, experiment, and feel emotions without demanding perfection. Repeated practice can bring clarity.
• Treat setbacks as lessons that can help you move closer to your goal, rather than as proof that you cannot achieve it.

Group 2: Be Authentic and Practice Through Discomfort

• Ask whether your ambitions are genuinely yours or shaped by other people’s expectations.
• Be willing to express your real opinions, feelings, and identity, even if some people disagree or disapprove.
• Expect new skills and self-expression to feel awkward at first. Build confidence through repeated practice and gradually facing discomfort.
• Try not to let fear of mistakes, judgment, rejection, or looking foolish keep you from acting.
• Picture the outcome you want and keep practicing. The reading describes this as a path from beginner to mastery.
• Reflect on the qualities you already have and those you could develop to become your best version.

Group 3: Make the Process Enjoyable

• Bring more playfulness and curiosity to your goal, rather than treating it only as a serious result to achieve.
• Use what you already have creatively; better tools or perfect conditions aren’t always necessary.
• Slow down and put care and personal meaning into the process. Avoid rushing solely to reach an outcome.
• Ease up on perfectionism and excessive self-criticism. Allow yourself to learn by trying, making mistakes, and adjusting.
• Look for small ways to make even challenging work more pleasant, and forgive yourself when things aren’t easy.

Group 4: Examine Beliefs and Change Your Perspective

• Write down what you believe about your goal and notice recurring patterns that may reveal beliefs working against it.
• Ask what assumptions might explain those patterns, then look for evidence that challenges old beliefs and supports more helpful ones.
• Brainstorm multiple possible routes forward instead of assuming there is no solution.
• Consider the situation from the perspective of your future self—the version of you who has already achieved the goal—and ask what advice they would give.
• Use journaling, reflection, or visualization to imagine new possibilities and reduce unconscious self-sabotage.
• The presenter recommends her “Identity Shift” meditation and a paid subconscious-reprogramming meditation as tools for this work.

Presenters and Sources

• Presenter: The Gem Goddess
• Source cited: Carl Jung, in reference to bringing unconscious patterns into awareness
• Frameworks used in the readings: Astrology, tarot, crystals, and oracle-card imagery, including references to Thoth/Tahuti, Horus, and Sophia
• Meditations mentioned: The Gem Goddess’s “Identity Shift” meditation and “Meditation for Reprogramming the Subconscious”