We broke up

Breakup and Reflection

Matthew reflects on ending his relationship with Eve after about a year and seven months. He says the breakup wasn’t caused by cheating, fighting, or one person doing something wrong. He had concerns about whether their differences would work long term, but chooses not to share the specifics out of respect for Eve.

Making a public video about the breakup felt awkward, but Matthew wanted to acknowledge the relationship’s end without seeking pity.

Motorcycle Road Trip

To clear his head, Matthew takes his first motorcycle road trip in West Virginia, riding his Yamaha R1 along quiet country roads and stopping at a scenic overlook. The ride gives him a welcome distraction and a sense of peace.

He emphasizes that heartbreak isn’t a reason to ride recklessly, risk your life, or hurt yourself in other ways. After a friend died in a motorcycle crash, Matthew became more conscious of riding responsibly.

Takeaways and Coping Advice

• It’s okay to feel sad after a breakup; emotions can come in waves.
• Do kind, enjoyable things for yourself—such as getting outside, traveling, or treating yourself—instead of isolating in your room.
• Find healthy distractions and keep moving, but don’t put yourself in danger.
• Avoid rushing into a new relationship while you’re feeling vulnerable. Give yourself time to enjoy being single.
• Ride at a reasonable pace, especially on unfamiliar roads, and be mindful of limited fuel and poor cell service in remote areas.

Notable People, Places, and Products

• People: Matthew, Eve
• Places: West Virginia, Ohio
• Products: Yamaha R1 and MT-07 motorcycles; Chipotle