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4. Kenali Peranmu di Situasi Perundungan (Perundungan)

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Key takeaways

Wellness and Self-Improvement

Key points about bullying roles (who’s involved)

Identifying the parties involved in bullying is essential so it can be prevented or handled early.

Roles discussed

  • Victim (C)

    • The target of bullying actions.
    • Can be anyone, but some students may be more vulnerable, for example due to:
      • Smaller physique / different physical appearance
      • Lower social or economic status
      • Social isolation / having few friends
      • Risk factors such as violence at home, feelings of inferiority, or childhood trauma (not always, but educators should be sensitive)

  • Perpetrator (B)

    • Does bullying and often:
      • Feels superior
      • Shows low empathy
      • Blames the victim
      • Uses excuses (e.g., differences in walking, “doesn’t want to teach”)
    • Often has more power/strength, such as:
      • Stronger physique
      • Higher status
      • Popularity

  • Spectators / Bystanders

    • Witness the incident.
    • Are still considered involved because watching without acting can help the bullying continue.

Types of spectators (bystanders)

  • Active bystanders

    • Enjoy or support the perpetrator’s actions.
    • Indirectly reinforce bullying behavior.

  • Passive bystanders

    • Only watch, without helping the victim or supporting the perpetrator directly.
    • Even “doing nothing” can still allow bullying to continue.

Why bystanders often don’t act

  • Fear of becoming a new target
  • Concern that defending the victim will make things worse
  • Belief/misconception that “bullying is normal at school”
  • Reluctance to report or interfere

Wellness/self-care & school-action takeaway (implied strategies)

  • Create and protect safe spaces without violence.
  • Do not normalize bullying—even if it seems “trivial” or “a joke.”
  • Educators should stay alert to risk factors (e.g., home violence, trauma, inferiority) and respond with sensitivity.
  • Recognize that the psychological impact can be worse when:
    • Many bystanders stay inactive, leading the victim to believe everyone agrees with the bullying.

Presenters / Sources

  • No specific presenter or named source is mentioned in the provided subtitles.

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