Summary of Do Fearful Avoidants Miss You After A Breakup?
fearful avoidants will miss their exes, but it's a matter of when, not if.
There are six phases that a fearful avoidant goes through after a breakup.
Understanding the differences between fearful avoidant and dismissive avoidant attachment styles.
fearful avoidants have both avoidant and anxious tendencies.
fearful avoidants may miss their exes when their anxious side starts to take over.
The concept of the phantom ex - avoidants may idealize past relationships.
nostalgic reverie - avoidants may start missing their exes after feeling safe.
Reaching out to recapture the past is a common behavior of fearful avoidants.
The turtle effect - the constant back and forth between anxious and avoidant traits in fearful avoidants.
Breaking the cycle through attachment gravity by being in a relationship with a secure attachment style.
Focus on personal growth and creating healthy habits to attract a loving relationship.
Presenters/sources
- Ex-Boyfriend Recovery YouTube channel
Notable Quotes
— 06:51 — « an ex will miss you if they are fearful avoidant and really when they start to miss you is that seventh stage where they their anxious side starts to take back over theyre starting to feel kind of lonely again, »
— 11:05 — « During this bout of nostalgia that theyre having this is often when we see fearful avoidance reaching out to their exes in a bid to recapture the past., »
— 13:18 — « this is the fearful avoidant in a nutshell theyre like turtles poking their head out of their shells one day and then hiding the next and yes most of the time if you get back into a relationship with one youre doomed to go through the same variation of the cycle that I just laid out for you.] »
Category
Wellness and Self-Improvement