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my 12 weird habits to save serious money but still enjoy life

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Key takeaways

Wellness and Self-Improvement

Key money-saving + self-care/productivity strategies (from the subtitles)

  • “De-influence” spending (be intentional, not deprivation)

    • Focus on reducing both tangible and intangible overspending.
    • Aim for money spent toward goals (travel, concerts, wedding), not impulse.

  • Make caffeine at home

    • Brew matcha/coffee at home instead of buying daily drinks.
    • If possible, use what you already have (tea/instant/loose-leaf options) and only purchase consumables (e.g., matcha powder/beans).

  • Skip delivery; reduce “small fee” creep

    • Never order food delivery due to compounded costs:
      • delivery fee, service fee, driver fee, tips (plus taxes)
    • If ordering out, choose takeout pickup instead of delivery.

  • Eat out more minimally + order strategically

    • Rarely eat at restaurants
    • When you do:
      • skip drinks and appetizers
      • stick to free water + an entree

  • Meal prep as a mental-energy and spending reset

    • Meal prep and eat the same meal plan every day for a week (same meals across the week).
    • Keep it enjoyable (not “boring”): aim for meals you genuinely like.
    • Use tactics:
      • Cost control: meals come out to ~$3 or less
      • Bulk groceries (Costco): save money + reduce decision fatigue
      • Freeze after prepping and reheat quickly (microwave)
    • Benefit: reduces temptation to eat out/order delivery.

  • Travel budget via “basic” constraints

    • Book the cheapest flights (basic economy / most restricted option).
    • Accept limitations (no changes; limited choices like seat/carry-on if required).
    • Travel light:
      • use a personal item/backpack to avoid extra fees
      • pack in a way that works for a small frame (they mention being 5‘1”)

  • Use public transportation; avoid ride-share

    • No car to reduce recurring expenses (gas, parking, maintenance, etc.).
    • In a walkable city, prioritize public transit.
    • Avoid Uber/Lyft except when traveling (e.g., airport runs with heavy luggage).
    • Use public transit for typical point-to-point trips.

  • Stay comfortable without cranking utilities

    • If cold: put on more clothes instead of turning up the heater (“warm your person, not the room”).
    • If hot: avoid AC; rely on opening windows/breeze or using a hand fan.

  • Cut entertainment subscription bloat

    • No streaming subscriptions (Netflix/Hulu/etc.).
    • Prefer free entertainment (YouTube).
    • Accept being “out of the loop” rather than paying.

  • Boundaries with friends to prevent “money leaks”

    • When someone asks to hang out, say no if it conflicts with saving goals.
    • Reframe friendship time as flexible:
      • free/low-cost hangs (errands together, study/body-double/admin days)
      • check for free museum days (they mention SF-specific examples, like resident free days)

  • Kill impulse buys

    • Add items to a wish list first (don’t buy immediately).
    • Wait at least a week to reassess desire vs. need.

  • Avoid buying from ads

    • Don’t buy from social media ads / TikTok shop / “buy now” checkout loops.
    • Reason: impulse + “dopamine hit” cycle leads to unnecessary spending.

  • Watch micro-purchases

    • Don’t treat small repeated spending as harmless (“just one more”).
    • If the goal is saving money, these accumulate quickly.

Presenters / sources

  • Presenter: The YouTube creator (name not provided in the subtitles)

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