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Robert Bly Lecture: The Art of Longing (1995)

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Art and Creativity

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Robert Bly reflects on “longing” as a central spiritual/psychological word, describing it as an intense desire that points beyond the immediate self—often toward something protected, bounded, or “garden-like.” He reads and interprets poems (especially those concerning longing, grief, and desire), then expands into cultural and spiritual ideas.

Key themes include:

  • Longing for the father that can’t be recovered materially
  • Imaginative practices modeled on medieval mystical traditions (Jewish, Arab, Christian), including layered “worlds”
  • The idea that longing can function as a form of response or connection—for example, grief as a “secret cup” connected to the Grail

He also emphasizes a creative stance toward suffering and death, suggesting that art can be a kind of “playing” that does not deny mortality.

The lecture culminates in reflections on ritual as a way to deepen ordinary life: longer prayers, structured greetings and farewells, meals with gratitude, and even a gendered metaphor of “stealing”—borrowing tenderness and care across polarities. Bly links personal memory (including childhood in Minnesota and the absence of communal ritual) to existential meaning.

Artistic techniques / creative concepts shown

  • Poetic reading as interpretation

    • Bly performs poems aloud and listens closely to their sound—treating listening (phonetics and rhythm) as part of meaning-making.

  • Sound and sonic patterning

    • He highlights how consonants, rhyme, and musical structure create emotional force—especially in Hopkins.

  • Persona / voice-as-structure

    • He discusses poems spoken through a persona (e.g., Hopkins “in the words of a nun”), using perspective to access longing.

  • Longing as an imaginative practice (psychic “world-building”)

    • He outlines an inward method: imagining the father across multiple realms/worlds so longing becomes coherent.

  • Mythic / religious metaphor stacking

    • He layers mystical cosmology (multiple worlds, angels, spheres accessed by sound/letters/names) with Christian Grail imagery—then maps it back onto inner grief.

  • Creative collage of references

    • The lecture moves quickly among sources—Hopkins, biblical figures (David, Jonah), Kabbalistic concepts, “Grail” debates, and Bly’s own poems—showing a technique of cultural/textual remixing.

  • Ritual as writing/life extension

    • He argues that ritual lengthens attention, giving gratitude and meaning time to “sink in,” analogous to how a poem sinks into a listener.

  • Transgressive metaphor (“stealing”)

    • Bly uses “stealing” as a creative/cultural technique: borrowing what another gender/culture holds tenderly to help repair polarities.

  • Affirmation through imagery

    • He praises images that calm or transform the psyche (e.g., the “moose” image that “calms us slowly obstinately”).

Methods / steps explicitly presented (as advice)

  • Imaginative process for “the father” (multi-realm visualization)

    • Imagine the father in the physical realm (objects and earthly life).
    • Imagine the father in the star/planet realm (linked with astrology).
    • Imagine the father in the higher realm (archangels, great spirits/gods).
    • Transition method: enter these realms through sound (and historically through letters/names), rather than only direct material recovery.

  • Using ritual to deepen practice

    • Extend gratitude with longer structured speech (prayers, blessings).
    • Replace rushed habits (like hurried dinner/prayer) with more deliberate ritual form so gratitude actually lands.
    • Use ritual greetings/farewells (e.g., structured conversation when someone arrives home).

  • Cross-polar borrowing (“stealing” tenderness)

    • Love deeply what the “other polarity” possesses.
    • Steal/borrow what you genuinely need metaphorically (especially tenderness and what the other can give).
    • He extends the metaphor to death-related powers only in play/connection, not denial.

Key creative works referenced (poems/ideas discussed)

  • Gerald Manley Hopkins

    • “I have desired to go…” (a poem on longing; Bly highlights its sound and rhyme)

  • Hopkins / Kabbalistic / mystical concept blending

    • A multi-world model; angels; longing as a “return message”

  • Bly’s own poetry (multiple readings), including

    • Poems from “The Moose”
    • Poems “started when I was about 29”
    • Short poems themed around not-caring, sunlight, Jonah-like themes, and “Vincentini” (whale/swallowing imagery)
    • A short poem “about death” (leaf/body/iron ball imagery)
    • A childhood poem set in Western Minnesota, including:
      • sheep arriving by cattle cars
      • the dead thrown into a gravel pit
      • the missing ceremony for goodbye

Mentioned creators / contributors featured at the end

  • Robert Bly (speaker; author/poet of poems he reads)
  • Gerald Manley Hopkins (poet whose work Bly reads)
  • Coleman (mentioned as “Coleman’s version”)
  • Rumi (mentioned in relation to Coleman’s version)
  • David (biblical figure; Bly frames a poem’s persona around him)
  • Jonah (biblical figure; Bly frames imagery around him)
  • Vincentini (character/title used in one of Bly’s poems)

Note: A subtitle mention of “Henry Wadsworth Longfellow? / Robert?” appears ambiguous; “remark Yates” is also shown, and the intended reference is unclear.

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