Optimizing Your Time Talking To Women

Intentions (Don’t Negotiate Forever)

• When you exchange socials, be explicit about your goal: you want to follow up to call or meet (e.g., “Let’s call” / “Let’s plan a date or activity”).
• Avoid vague “let’s talk” energy that often turns into long texting chains or dry conversations.

One Decisive Follow-Up

• If you want to call, call/FaceTime directly rather than asking repeatedly if she’s free.
• The idea: if she’s genuinely interested, she’ll respond; if not, she’ll ignore or give soft deflections.

Non-Response = A Signal

• If she doesn’t answer your call, treat it as a missed opportunity and stop investing more time.
• Don’t double-text/spam when you’re seeing delivered/ignored messages—otherwise you risk looking like you’re “marinating,” which can come off as creepy.

Stop Overplanning

• Extensive planning after low engagement can lead to flaking.
• Keep it efficient: get a response first, then plan.

Time-Efficiency Mindset (“Every Shot”)

• Like a sports shooter: the “best shooters” get the shot off fast and accurately.
• Applied to dating: reduce hesitation and move from chat → call/meet quickly, improving “accuracy” through better habits.

If She Flakes, End Cleanly

Example strategy discussed:

• If FaceTime gets ignored and she later texts: reply once (or let it end), then stop.
• If you run into her in person: keep it friendly and normal—but don’t restart the heavy texting chase.

Organic Opportunities Over Message Overload

• If you’ll see her again naturally (campus/library/work), you can talk in person without building pressure through multiple messages.
• Avoid triple/quadruple contacting—this can trigger avoidance behavior.

Additional Practical Note

• The timing/format improves confidence and execution: “your for your aim will come” (i.e., improve accuracy as you speed up execution).

Notable Locations / Products / People

Locations

• Foot Locker
• Campus/library scenarios
• “City”/library contexts (college/work implied)

Products / Tech

• AirPods
• FaceTime
• Messaging/socials (Instagram/DMs mentioned)

People / Speakers (References)

• Janemba: asked to be contacted for music/production pointers; mentions producing since ~age 14
• Curry: used as the shooting-speed example
• Ben Simmons: mentioned jokingly