6 Tips to Subtly Dom a Woman on a Date and Make Her See You as Instantly Attractive

Victoria’s Dating Advice

Victoria describes how, when she was dating, she often quickly decided whether she felt sexual attraction toward a man. She says confidence alone wasn’t the key for her; she responded to subtle signals of dominance, which she associated with confidence and sexual initiative.

Her six suggested ways to project that vibe on a date are:

1. Use a playful pet name. Try a joking “sweetheart” or “darlin’,” while recognizing it may not work for everyone.
2. Show strong emotion. Express anger or frustration about something unrelated to the date, which Victoria says can signal comfort with showing passion.
3. Compliment her unexpectedly. Interrupt the conversation to compliment her appearance rather than waiting for a conventional moment.
4. Bring up traditionally masculine interests. Talk briefly about sports or similar topics to create what she calls “polarity.”
5. Tease her. Use light, witty teasing; Victoria says it can feel like mental sparring.
6. Ask about sex. Bring the conversation around to sexual topics, which she says can create attraction for some women.

These are Victoria’s personal views and suggested tactics; reactions will vary from person to person.

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