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BAKIT TAYO HIRAP SA BUHAY? AYON SA MANIFESTATION EXPERT | Do You Think with Tiyo Bri S2 Ep.24

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Wellness and Self-Improvement

Key wellness + manifestation strategies from the discussion

Shift out of “survival mode” (nervous-system protection) into “creative mode”

  • Survival mode can look like:
    • Waking up rushed
    • Doom-scrolling
    • Stress/pressure/deadlines all day
    • Ending the day with more scrolling/problems
  • When you’re in survival mode, what tends to manifest is more survival: more pressure, lack, and scarcity.
  • Creative mode is accessed when your body feels safe, which supports:
    • Imagination
    • Receptivity
    • Possibility

Regulate your nervous system first—before any manifestation technique

  • The “core work” is not rituals—it’s learning how to make your body feel safe so your mind can access opportunities.
  • You can’t fully “turn off” survival instincts (they’re natural), but you can shift into a safety/creative state when needed.

Self-care techniques (practical tools mentioned)

Evening routine matters most (what you watch/scroll before sleep “marinates”)

  • Avoid falling asleep in stress or scrolling if possible.
  • Do a 5–10 minute wind-down before sleep:
    • Breathwork (longer exhale)
      • Inhale through the nose for 4 counts
      • Exhale through the mouth for 8 counts
      • Purpose: signal safety to the brain/body (“we are safe right now”)
    • Plant a vision before sleep
      • Briefly imagine how your desired life/goal feels (e.g., what it would feel like to have a thriving business)
      • Let it sit in your consciousness while you sleep

Morning routine (short, doable version)

If you don’t have time for long meditation:

  • Hug yourself + self-soothing
    • Example: “I love myself, I am safe.”
  • Set an intention using questions, not only affirmations
    • Example framing: “Why is this day the most amazing day ever?”
    • (Questions are said to lower resistance because your brain tries to answer them.)
  • Move intentionally when you get out of bed
    • Instead of rushing on autopilot

Optional add-ons if you have more time:

  • Breathwork
  • Meditation
  • Journaling
  • Planning the first 3 inspired steps for the day

Moment-by-moment awareness as a manifestation technique

Practice being aware of:

  • What you’re thinking
  • What you’re feeling
  • What you’re doing

If stress spikes (autopilot agitation at work, etc.):

  • Check: “What am I thinking/feeling right now?”
  • Then return to the truth: “Right here, right now, I am safe.”
  • Do quick somatic soothing:
    • Shoulders down
    • Soften your neck
    • Breathe intentionally

Breathing is described as the simplest/fastest switch because it can relax you almost immediately.

Gratitude reframed

  • Instead of forcing gratitude for a perfect life, appreciate what’s immediate:
    • Breathing properly
    • Your heart beating
    • Being thankful even for “still being alive”
  • If gratitude feels hard:
    • Close your eyes and breathe

Relationship / love self-care guidance

First align your relationship “state,” not just a specific person

  • Before manifesting an SP (specific person), build the kind of relationship and values you want:
    • Reflect on the relationship experience
    • How you want to be loved
    • Values
    • (Optionally) physical preferences, if you want
  • Then ask:
    • “Am I a match to those values/states?”
  • If not, a delay may be an opportunity to work on self-worth, habits, and identity.

Avoid manifesting from “void” or dependency

  • Healthy love is about wholeness, not using another person to fill emptiness.
  • Core idea:
    • Your partner should amplify who you already are—not complete you.
    • If you’re not whole, you may keep repeating the pattern of seeking someone to feel whole.

Identity-shifting (change through identity, not just behavior)

Change identity by “remembering” your true nature

  • Identity shift isn’t reinventing yourself—it’s returning to who you naturally are.
  • Example given:
    • Someone labeled “lazy” actually had an energy type that needs rest; rest isn’t failure—it’s part of their real identity.

Conditioning matters

  • Identity can be shaped by:
    • Parents
    • Teachers
    • Friends
    • Environment
    • Comparison
  • So what you thought was a flaw may actually be your unique gift.

Productivity / mindset principles tied to manifestation

Emotions and state come before outcomes

  • Don’t wait to feel loved/safe/successful until after the manifestation arrives.
  • Ask:
    • “What does this job/relationship make me feel?”
  • Then practice that emotional state now.

Be careful of “morning/evening only”

  • If you do rituals but the rest of the day is autopilot stress, results won’t stick.
  • The key is awareness and nervous-system regulation throughout the day.

Final actionable advice emphasized

  • Get clear on the life you want—specifically—before techniques
    • Start with clarity: “What life would I love to live—not just survive?”
  • Start working on yourself by first learning how to relax and feel safe
    • Even short meditation or heavy breathing in silence counts.
  • Take action after you regulate
    • Make your body feel safe, make your mind/heart feel safe… then take action and see what unfolds.

Presenters / sources mentioned

  • Teo Bri (host)
  • Miss Jamie (manifestation coach; Jamie Gatbonton)
  • Tritone Studios / Trytone Entertainment (studio/production mentioned)
  • Pikotin perfume by Tio Bry (mentioned as sponsor/associate)
  • Coach Rus (referenced/shoutout)
  • TikTok (Miss Jamie’s platform; “Jamie Gatbonton”)

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