The Real Reason I Won't Date Women With Tattoos

Overview

The speaker presents and argues for several “red flags” when selecting a dating partner, framing them as ongoing patterns that allegedly lead to problems for men.

Red Flag #10: Heavily tattooed and pierced women

• The speaker claims there is a “direct correlation” between tattoos/piercings and negative dating outcomes.
• He cites an anecdote from an ER doctor friend: women who come in beaten/roughened up or with STDs are “covered in tattoos.”
• Another argument is that tattoos imply men repeatedly “piercing”/tattooing a woman over time, which he presents as a turn-off.
• He alleges (without evidence) that many tattoo artists sleep with their female clients, portraying tattooed/pierced women as having “baggage.”
• He rejects “too much” body modification (e.g., multiple piercings, nipple/body piercings) and dismisses “the story behind it” as essentially an admission of baggage.

Red Flag #11: “Notch counts” (past sexual partners)

• The speaker references prior discussions of research (e.g., “Teachman overlay” vs “Heritage study”) and previous videos.
• He claims men are highly disgusted by women with high past partner counts, using a hypothetical about how many men would want their wife to have had “50 or 75” more partners.
• He argues promiscuity affects men and women differently, claiming men with past promiscuity are not similarly disadvantaged because women allegedly value men’s histories differently.

Red Flag #12: Single moms

• He claims inviting a single mom into a man’s life typically leads to “cuckoldry,” where the man becomes a step-parent and ends up raising another man’s child.
• He asserts this “never works out,” claiming it is based on hundreds of private consultations (at least “over a thousand guys”).
• He argues loyalty is unlikely if she has children from multiple men.
• He adds a preference for “fresh” partners and warns against men taking on financial/household burdens for multiple kids.
• He includes a quoted example from someone in his community about a single mom’s priorities, claiming the boyfriend/husband becomes low priority compared to children, ex-partner(s), and household obligations.

Red Flag #13: Women seeking validation

• He claims women who routinely post provocative/salacious content on social media are seeking attention and approval from men.
• He distinguishes between:
  • “Good” social media use (private or family-focused, modest posting, possibly business), and
  • “Bad” use (public sexualized posting intended to get likes and validation).
• He uses a story set during a trip (Dubai, with a luxury pool view of the Burj Khalifa) where women repeatedly take staged, provocative photos in the presence of boyfriends/girlfriends and then post them for likes.
• He concludes that men should “quash” this behavior early, framing these women as unable or unwilling to be led and as repeatedly “going from guy to guy.”

Presenters/Contributors

• Rich — the speaker/host (name not fully stated in subtitles)