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Give me 12 Minutes and I will make you Dangerously Confidentš„ | 5 Proven Steps | Prashant Kirad
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Key takeaways
Key wellness & performance strategies (confidence building)
- Reframe confidence as a skill (not something inherited)
- Use science/psychology to ābuildā confidence through repeatable steps.
Break the āmazeā of underconfidence using 3 phases
Phase 1: Build internal confidence
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Micro-wins (self-efficacy training)
- Practice the performance in steps:
- Rehearse the speech to yourself in front of a mirror
- Deliver it to 4 people
- Deliver it to 10 people
- Goal: convince your mind that you can perform, so anxiety decreases.
- Practice the performance in steps:
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āFaith hackā breathing to calm fight-or-flight
- Before stage/new tasks, reduce the stress-response by breathing:
- Inhale through the nose for 5ā7 seconds
- Take a slight additional inhale
- Slowly exhale through the mouth
- Do 2ā3 rounds to normalize heart rate/breathing and feel calmer.
- Before stage/new tasks, reduce the stress-response by breathing:
Phase 2: Look confident outwardly
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Eye contact via the Triangle Method
- Instead of direct staring at eyes, focus on a part of the personās head so it reads as eye contact.
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Posture
- Keep your back straight while standing/speaking.
- The ācorrect posture vs crooked/bent postureā effect is presented as influencing how confident others perceive you.
Phase 3: Sound confident
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Clarity matters (slow down slightly)
- Speak with āprocessing fluencyā:
- Keep your words clear and understandable (example: Steve Jobs-style slower speech).
- Speak with āprocessing fluencyā:
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Use pauses
- Say it with structure and breaks:
- āI can do it and I will do itā (with pauses)
- Pauses are positioned as a way to project poise and confidence.
- Say it with structure and breaks:
Productivity/performance takeaway
- Use a repeatable rehearsal + calming routine + delivery techniques to become more confident within 7 days (as claimed in the video).
Presenters / sources mentioned
- Prashant Kirad (presenter)
- Shantanu Bansal (mentioned as an intro speaker in the subtitlesā example)
- Harvard research (mentioned regarding interviews/increased chances with speaking well)
- Stanford University research (mentioned regarding breathing/physiology)
- Steve Jobs (referenced for speaking slowly/clarity)
- ā74 peopleā study (referenced for posture effects; source not explicitly named)
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