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Intersubjectivity (Introduction to the Philosophy of the Human Person)

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Main Ideas & Concepts

  • Humanizing perception of others (Buber): When we see another person as a person (not a tool/object), we become truly human.
  • Social life & interaction types:
    • We naturally form groups (family, city) and often interact because we need something.
    • Some interactions are selfless and intimate, where we treat others as subjects rather than objects.
  • Intersubjectivity (core topic):
    • Defined as the exchange of thoughts and feelings (conscious and unconscious) between two subjects, enabling empathy.
    • Grounded in mutual awareness and recognition of both self and other as individuals.

Key Lesson: Authenticity vs. Performative Interaction

  • People often care about self-image and how others see them, so they may act differently depending on the audience.
  • This behavior is described as “giving in” / “pretending”:
    • Approaching others through the role or image one wants to project.
    • Hiding parts of oneself to appear more attractive or socially advantageous.

Desire for Genuine Connection: Dialogue

  • Despite pretending, people still long for deeper interaction.
  • Dialogue is presented as the authentic alternative:
    • Interaction through speech, words, expressions, and body language.
    • Happens when each person perceives the other as “other” in a respectful way—acknowledging:
      • presence
      • uniqueness and differences
      • equality
    • Emphasizes openness, mutual exchange, and acceptance.

Three Levels of Intersubjectivity

1) Empathy

  • Ability to share emotions or put yourself in another’s shoes.
  • Based on recognizing that the other is also a person with feelings.

2) Openness (Availability)

  • Willingness to be present and help another.

3) Ethic of Care

  • A moral framework emphasizing the moral obligation to respond to others’ needs.
  • Especially important for people who are vulnerable and whose needs cannot be ignored.

Two Ways of Relating to Others (Martin Buber): “I–It” vs “I–Thou”

1) I–It Relationship

  • What it involves: The “I” treats the other as an object (something to know, study, or use).
  • Type of encounter: Not a real encounter—described as a monologue (a relationship with oneself).
  • Examples given:
    • Employers treating employees like machines
    • Businesses using women in advertising to increase sales
  • Resulting phenomenon: Alienation
    • Relationships become inauthentic, deceptive, and exploitative.
    • The other loses dignity and humanity → dehumanization.
    • The alienation/decentering comes from no longer seeing the other as a separate person.

2) I–Thou Relationship

  • What it involves: The “I” perceives the other as distinctly other—a “You” (a real person with their own beliefs, values, interests, and characteristics).
  • Type of encounter: A sincere exchange that does not reduce the other to an object.
  • Connection to dialogue: Presented as the core basis for true dialogue.

Overall Conclusion (What the Video Is Teaching)

  • Intersubjectivity is relational exchange between persons that supports empathy.
  • People often slip into pretending/giving in due to self-image concerns, leading to inauthentic interaction.
  • Authentic intersubjectivity is realized through dialogue—openness, mutual giving and acceptance, and recognizing the other’s personhood.
  • It has three levels (empathy, openness/availability, ethic of care) and can take two main relational forms:
    • I–It → alienation
    • I–Thou → genuine dialogue

Speakers / Sources Featured

  • Martin Buber (Austrian–Jewish philosopher) — I and Thou; “I–It” and “I–Thou” relationships
  • Edmund Husserl (Austrian–German philosopher) — coined/introduced the term intersubjectivity

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