J’ai choisi de vivre seule sans mes enfants

Summary

In an informal Q&A filmed during her skincare routine, Sibylle explains why she chose to rent an apartment in Paris for herself, separate from her family. She is 31, a mother of three, and engaged. She says her children are safe and well cared for by their father, Harold, whom she describes as a very involved parent. She sees them every day.

The apartment is a personal dream and a place where she can recharge, enjoy her independence, and arrange her space in a way that suits her.

Sibylle does not regret having her first child at 23. Having children young can mean being younger as they grow up, but she says her experience was shaped by having strong support. Motherhood is demanding even with an involved partner, she says, and she cautions against romanticizing it or assuming a child will keep a relationship together. She encourages women to take their time and consider whether they have reliable support before becoming parents.

She also criticizes the unequal scrutiny mothers face when they spend time away from their children, noting that fathers are not questioned as often. In her view, taking time for herself does not mean she loves her children any less. Looking after her wellbeing and pursuing her ambitions help her feel happier during the time she shares with them. She encourages viewers not to give up on their dreams simply because those dreams fall outside society’s expectations.

Key Advice and Takeaways

• Don’t assume your experience of early motherhood will be the same as someone else’s. Having children is a major, lasting life change.
• Consider whether you have dependable support, especially from a partner who takes an active role in parenting.
• Don’t have a child in the hope that it will keep a partner in the relationship.
• Motherhood and personal identity can coexist. It is okay to need space and pursue your own goals.
• Don’t let anticipated criticism stop you from taking practical steps toward a meaningful dream.

Skincare Products Mentioned

During the video, Sibylle tries a CurrentBody Series 3 LED mask, which she says she uses for about 10 minutes as part of her skincare routine. She also applies a moisturizing mask from her own brand. The subtitles mention possible skincare benefits of LED therapy, though Sibylle expresses uncertainty about the specific claims.

Notable Locations, Products, and People

• Location: Sibylle’s apartment in Paris
• Products: CurrentBody Series 3 LED mask; Sibylle’s moisturizing collagen mask; her hair-care range
• People: Sibylle; Harold, her fiancé and the father of her children, whom she describes as a highly involved parent